Jurnal Teologi & Pelayanan Kerusso
Vol 11 No 2 (2026): Jurnal Teologi & Pelayanan Kerusso - September 2026

Model Konseptual Ketahanan Pernikahan Kristen: Integrasi Emotionally Focused Therapy dan Efesus 5:22–33 dalam Konseling Pranikah

Rina Kendek (Sekolah Tinggi Teologi Injili Indonesia Yogyakarta)



Article Info

Publish Date
26 Oct 2026

Abstract

Christian marital resilience encompasses couples’ ability to maintain commitment, foster emotional closeness, and navigate conflict constructively. Premarital counseling can prepare couples to face relational challenges while deepening their understanding of the theological significance of marriage. This article aims to formulate a conceptual model of Christian marital resilience by integrating Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and Ephesians 5:22–33. The study employs an interdisciplinary qualitative literature review that brings clinical psychology into dialogue with pastoral theology. The literature includes publications from 2016 to 2026 on EFT, attachment theory, premarital counseling, and marital resilience, alongside foundational works on EFT and exegetical-theological studies of Ephesians 5:21–33. Sources were selected based on their relevance, academic credibility, and contribution to the research focus. The literature was analyzed through thematic synthesis and conceptual comparison. The findings propose an integrative model that combines EFT’s emphasis on identifying negative interaction cycles, understanding emotional needs, and fostering secure attachment with the biblical principles of sacrificial love, relational responsibility, and Christ’s example in Ephesians 5:21–33. This model brings relational skills and the formation of Christian commitment together as foundations for premarital counseling aimed at strengthening marital resilience. It offers an initial framework for pastoral counselors and churches, although its application and effectiveness require further empirical investigation.

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Journal Info

Abbrev

Kerusso

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Subject

Religion

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Jurnal Teologi & Pelayanan KERUSSO diterbitkan oleh STTII Surabaya, untuk mengembangkan karya tulis yang Imani, Injili & Interdenominasi, melalui penelitian yang berdasarkan pengajaran Alkitab ekspositori. Artikel yang disajikan meliputi studi eksegesis, eksposisi, penelitian lapangan & analisis ...