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Analisis Maslahah Terhadap Konsep Kafa’ah dalam Tradisi Perkawinan di Kalangan Pesantren Pamekasan Assulthoni, Fahmi
Al-Hukama': The Indonesian Journal of Islamic Family Law Vol. 8 No. 1 (2018): Juni
Publisher : Islamic Family Law Department, Sharia and Law Faculty, UIN Sunan Ampel Surabaya, Indonesia

Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.15642/al-hukama.2018.8.1.28-52

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One of the factors that can influence family harmony is the condition of balance between husband and wife. The phenomenon in some Islamic boarding house (pesantren) in Pamekasan show new things in the implementation of kafaah in a marriage system. Many of the kyais (the figures) mate and marry their sons and daughters with the closest people or from the same level and class. This research uses descriptive qualitative method and observation, interview, and documentation study to obtain data. The results obtained from this research are: in the process of choosing a mate to their sons, they as parents prefer and emphasize on the factors of the same nasab. The goal is for the struggle of continuing their Islamic boarding school, the creation of kinship with other kyais and so on. According to the perspective maslahah, such marriages can be justified. First, because there is a basis of the Qur’an and the hadiths affiliated with it. Second, the purpose of marriage with consideration of comparability will lead to many benefits. Third, the concept of maslahah itself requires that human beings get ease in a matter, and avoid the difficulties that hinder it later.
Emotional Language in Madurese Culture: Implications for Culturally Responsive Counseling Practice Fakhriyani, Diana Vidya; Dwi Pratama, Beny; Sa’idah, Ishlakhatus; Assulthoni, Fahmi
GHANCARAN: Jurnal Pendidikan Bahasa dan Sastra Indonesia SPECIAL EDITION: LALONGET VI
Publisher : Tadris Bahasa Indonesia, Fakultas Tarbiyah, Institut Agama Islam Negeri Madura

Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.19105/ghancaran.vi.21738

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Knowledge of culturally influenced emotionality is an important set of knowledge for culturally responsive counseling practice. Culture influences the perception, control, and expression of emotions not least within counselling where much emphasis is laid on sensitivity to cultural norms and values. The purpose of this research is to describe forms of emotional languages in Madurese culture and discuss the implications for culturally responsive counseling. This study uses a descriptive qualitative approach, where data is obtained through literature review, interviews, observation, and documentation. The results of this study show that the Madurese people manifest their feelings to others directly (blak-blakan) and indirectly using symbolic language with the values of dignity (martabat), propriety (tengka), patience (sabbhar), and social solidarity. An understanding of these ways of communicating emotions is critical in counseling for the development of therapeutic relationships that are both effective and culturally sensitive. The study suggests the need for integrating more empathy, contextually and culturally sensitive training approach that takes into consideration local value system as well as the need to tailor interventions to reflect local cultural sensitivities as a way of improving the effectiveness of psychological support.