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Bhekalan dalam Tradisi dan Hukum (Studi Kasus pada Masyarakat Pakisan) Muzayyanah
Al-Adillah: Jurnal Hukum Islam Vol. 1 No. 2 (2021): Tradisi dan Hukum Islam
Publisher : UNIVERSITAS BONDOWOSO

Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | Full PDF (341.296 KB) | DOI: 10.61595/aladillah.v1i2.179

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Proposals are not a condition of marriage. However, the prevailing practice in the community shows that the proposal is a preliminary step that is almost certainly done in the community. It is customary in Pakisan village, that to carry out a marriage, the Bhekalan process is preceded. Bhekalan in Indonesian is the same as engagement. Bhekalan bond occurs after the man proposes to the woman either by himself or through an intermediary, and the proposal is accepted by the woman. The period between the receipt of the application and the holding of the marriage is called the Bhekalan period. Bhekalan bond not only changes the status between a man and a woman as a married couple (engaged), but also changes the views and attitudes of parents and society. Parents will make allowances for the association of abhekalan couples, which previously were very strict on the association of their children. They are given the freedom to go alone, together, stay at Bhekalnya's house, especially during Eid and other events. It became a normal thing for them. Seeing the condition of the Pakisan people who incidentally have sufficient religious knowledge, both formal education, madrasah diniyah or Islamic boarding schools, the author feels the need to raise this issue into a scientific work by looking at the association during the Bhekalan period in Pakisan village from the point of view of Islamic law and customary law, Of course, it cannot be separated from today's social context. Therefore, it must refer to the principle of the levels that occur in society (social stratification).
Wanita Karir dalam Bingkai Keluarga Sakinah Muzayyanah
Al-Adillah: Jurnal Hukum Islam Vol. 2 No. 2 (2022): Hukum Keluarga Islam di Indonesia
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Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.61595/aladillah.v2i2.446

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In the modern era, career women are in fact something that we cannot deny. Even though conceptually, it raises the pros and cons of thinking. On the one hand, career women are seen as moving towards equality with men. On the other hand, career women are seen as a step backwards in maintaining an eastern self-image. Based on this background, the objectives of this research are: 1). Knowing the efforts of career women in realizing a sakinah family. 2). Knowing the position of career women in the sakinah family. This research was conducted on female lecturers at Bondowoso University, using a descriptive qualitative approach, which attempted to describe some of the data obtained from the field, either by interview, observation, or documentation. Then proceed with the data analysis process. The results of this study indicate: 1). The efforts of women who have a career as lecturers at Bondowoso University in realizing a sakinah family include: a. Quality Time, in the sense that we must be able to maximize time with family, so that the importance of our existence is felt by them. b. Maintain good communication. c. Mutual open attitude. d. Mutual understanding. e. Time management. f. Husband's support for his wife for a career. g. Keeping the family intact. 2) Based on Islamic law, the position of a career woman in the concept of a sakinah family is to remain in the position of her husband so that she must still be obedient and obedient to her husband, because, in fact The husband is the leader of the family. eye of law.