A. Rachmad Djati Winarno
Unika Soegijapranata, Indonesia

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Resilience in Wives with Homosexual Husband Muhamad Fikri Maulana; A. Rachmad Djati Winarno; Sri Sumijati
Muwazah Vol 14 No 2 (2022)
Publisher : UIN K.H. Abdurrahman Wahid Pekalongan

Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.28918/muwazah.v14i2.6159

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A family full of peace, purity, love & affection, belonging, and so on is the goal of marriage that is coveted by all couples. But not all families and happy marriages work. There are many reasons, one of which is knowing that her husband is a homosexual. In general, wives who know their husband's identity often experience emotional turmoil such as disappointment, stress, depression to the meaninglessness of life, although in particular there are those who can rise from this suffering. This study aims to determine the condition of the wife's resilience with a homosexual husband and the factors that influence it. This study uses a qualitative method with a phenomenological approach. Participants in this study found two wives who had homosexual husbands. Data collection is based on interviews and observations conducted directly at the place where the participants are domiciled, namely Jepara and Batang and through video calls. The results of this study indicate that both participants are able to develop resilience based on aspects such as emotional regulation, impulses, optimism, causal analysis, empathy, self-efficacy and control and are influenced by I Am, I Have, and I Can factors. The collaboration factor of personality, love, spirituality, family support, social support, communication skills and independence became the key for both participants to be able to develop resilience and go through the dark period of suffering to a brighter life.
Resilience in Wives with Homosexual Husband Muhamad Fikri Maulana; A. Rachmad Djati Winarno; Sri Sumijati
MUWAZAH : jurnal kajian gender Vol 14 No 2 (2022)
Publisher : Universitas Islam Negeri K.H. Abdurrahman Wahid Pekalongan

Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.28918/muwazah.v14i2.1089

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Wives who find out their husbands are homosexuals often experience emotional surges such as disappointment, stress, depression and lead to meaninglessness of life, although in particular reason some are stood up from the sufferings. This study aims to determine the condition of resilience of wives whose husbands are homosexuals and the factors that influence them. Hope the results of the study will be useful for wives, families or households, especially in Indonesia, if they have problems with homosexual husbands. Some of them are able to develop resilience skills, at least they can be lesson for motivation and inspiration for wives, especially in Indonesia who are homosexuals in order to develop resilience skills. This research uses qualitative methods with a phenomenological approach. The participants of this study were two wives with homosexual husbands who lived in Central Java and Yogyakarta. Data collection was based on interviews and observations conducted directly at the participants' places, namely Jepara and Batang and through video calls. The results of this study showed that both participants were able to develop resilience after learning that their husband was homosexual. The stages are based on aspects such as emotional regulation, impulse control, optimism, causal analysis, empathy, self-efficacy and reaching out. Cultural factors, spirituality, social support and interpersonal communication skills were factors that influenced both participants in developing resilience so that they can go through the dark period of suffering to a life of light.