Qiyas: Jurnal Hukum Islam dan Peradilan
Vol 6, No 1 (2021): APRIL

STRATEGI WANITA KARIR DALAM MEMBENTUK KELUARGA SAKINAH MENURUT DOSEN PRODI BIMBINGAN KONSELING ISLAM DI IAIN BENGKULU

Rahmalia Afriyani (Sentot Alibasyah kota Bengkulu, Provinsi Bengkulu)



Article Info

Publish Date
05 Apr 2021

Abstract

Abstrak: Rumusan masalah penelitian ini ada adalah : (1) Bagaimana strategi dosen prodi bimbingan konseling Islam di IAIN Bengkulu dalam membentuk keluarga sakinah ? (2) Bagaimana pemahaman dosen prodi bimbingan konseling Islam dalam membentuk keluarga sakinah ? (3) Bagaimana Trik-Trik dosen prodi bimbingan konseling Islam di IAIN Bengkulu ?. Penelitian ini menggunakan jenis penelitian lapangan dengan pendekatan deskriptif kualitatif. Data-data penelitian dikumpulkan dengan menggunakan metode observasi, wawancara dan dokumentasi. Data yang terkumpul dari teknik tersebut dianalisis dengan menggunakan reduksi data, penyajian data dan verivikasi data. Keabsahan data diperoleh dengan menggunakan truangulasi data. Hasil penelitian ini menunjukkan bahwa : 1) Strategi dosen prodi bimbingan konseling Islam di IAIN Bengkulu ialah dengan suami istri saling memahami, mengerti satu sama lain hak dan kewajiban suami istri, dengan mengetahui hal dimulai mendidik anak, manajamen keuangan dan paling penting komunikasi. 2) Pemahaman menurut beberapa dosen tentang keluarga sakinah ialah bisa memberikan ketenangan secara psikologis yang mana baik suami dan istri keduanya memiliki peran saling melengkapi satu sama lain dimana jika ada masalah dalam keluarga maka salah satu mengalah, dan jika salah satu marah satu memaafkan, karena rumah tangga harmonis yang mana didalamnya terdapat kenyamanan, ketentraman, ketenangan bahkan komunikasi yang utama. 3) Trik-trik dosen prodi bimbingan konseling Islam dalam membentuk keluarga sakinah, yaitu : Yang pertama menjaga komunikasi karena komunikasi merupakan salah satu cara menjadikan keluarga sakinah dengan ketika ada masalah selesaikan segera jangan berlarut, mendoakan keluarga (suami dan anak), saling memahami satu sama lain dan memenuhi 3 hal yaitu mata, perut, dibawah perut.Kata kunci : Strategi, Dosen, keluarga sakinah. Abtract : The formulations of the research problems are: (1) How is the strategy of the lecturers of Islamic counseling study program in Bengkulu in forming a Sakinah family? (2) How is the understanding of the lecturer in Islamic counseling study program in forming a Sakinah family? (3) What are the tricks of the Islamic counseling guidance study program lecturers in Bengkulu?. This study uses a type of field research with a qualitative descriptive approach. Research data were collected using observation, interview and documentation methods. The data collected from these techniques were analyzed using data reduction, data presentation and data verification. The validity of the data was obtained by using data truangulasi.The results of this study indicate that: 1) the strategy of the lecturer in Islamic counseling study program in Iain Bengkulu is by husband and wife to understand each other, to understand each other's rights and obligations of husband and wife, by knowing things starting from educating children, financial management and most importantly communication.2) The understanding according to some lecturers about the sakinah family is that it can provide psychological calm where both husband and wife both have roles to complement each other where if there is a problem in the family one of them relents, and if one is angry one forgives, because the house a harmonious ladder in which there is comfort, tranquility, serenity and even the main communication. 3) The tricks of the BKI Study Program lecturers in forming a sakinah family, namely: The first is to maintain communication because communication is one way of making a sakinah family by when there is a problem, solve it immediately, do not drag on, pray for the family (husband and children), understand each other and fulfills 3 things, namely the eyes, stomach, under the stomach.Keywords: Strategy, lecturer, sakinah family.

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QIYAS

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Religion Humanities Law, Crime, Criminology & Criminal Justice Social Sciences

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