Sawwa: Jurnal Studi Gender
Vol. 20 No. 2 (2025): October

The Mourning Period (Iḥdād) for Widowers: A Gender and Sociological Perspectives

Fadhilah, Nur (Unknown)
Nihayah, Nihayah (Unknown)
Anshor, Ahmad Muhtadi (Unknown)
Ashfiya, Hamadah (Unknown)



Article Info

Publish Date
31 Oct 2024

Abstract

Despite extensive scholarship on female mourning practices (iḥdād), male mourning within Islamic legal and gender studies is largely overlooked, creating a significant gap in understanding how widowers manage grief culturally and religiously. This study focuses on the neglected male mourning practices in Islamic contexts and how widowers navigate their grief. Through a qualitative method involving in-depth interviews with five widowers, alongside observations and document analysis (in the form of local prayer books, memorial schedules, and religious guidance texts), the data was thematically analyzed using the Braun and Clarke framework, combined with phenomenological insights to uncover emotional and ethical patterns. The findings indicate that widowers engage in ethical negotiations—such as postponing remarriage and avoiding social gatherings—that reflect an interplay between Islamic teachings and Javanese cultural norms. This research suggests that the Qira'ah Mubādalah perspective offers a valuable interpretive framework that situates these mourning practices within a context of reciprocal ethics rooted in spirituality, which has broader implications for gender ethics in contemporary Islamic discourse.

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Journal Info

Abbrev

sawwa

Publisher

Subject

Social Sciences

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Sawwa: Jurnal Studi Gender focuses on topics related to gender and child issues. We aim to disseminate research and current developments on these issues. We invite manuscripts on gender and child topics in any perspectives, such as religion, economics, culture, history, education, law, art, ...