INTERNATIONAL JOURNAL OF SOCIETY REVIEWS (INJOSER)
Vol. 2 No. 10 (2025): AUGUST

THE TRADITION OF WOMEN PROPOSING TO MEN FROM THE PERSPECTIVE OF ISLAMIC LAW AND CULTURE IN THE COMMUNITIES OF LAMONGAN AND TRENGGALEK

Muhammad Ma’ruf Burhanudin (Universitas Hasyim Asy’ari Jombang,Indonesia)
Ita Rahmania Kusumawati (Universitas Hasyim Asy’ari Jombang,Indonesia)



Article Info

Publish Date
02 Aug 2025

Abstract

Proposal is a process conducted prior to marriage with the aim of establishing a matchmaking relationship between a man and a woman. In Payaman Village, Solokuro Subdistrict, Lamongan Regency, and Gandusari Village, Gandusari Subdistrict, Trenggalek Regency, there is a unique tradition where women propose to men. This tradition is rooted in customs passed down by religious and community leaders from generation to generation. This study aims to understand the implementation of this tradition, along with the perspectives of Islamic law and local wisdom related to the practice. The research method used is qualitative, with interviews conducted with religious and community figures involved in the practice. Theoretical and discussion sections must examine the religious arguments demonstrating that this tradition does not violate Islamic law. This tradition has an impact on strengthening women's roles, balancing power, improving communication, enhancing marriage quality, and enabling social adjustment. The results of the study show that the tradition of women proposing to men is based on long-standing customary practices preserved by the local community and, most importantly, does not violate Islamic law.

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INJOSER

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Religion Humanities Social Sciences

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INTERNATIONAL JOURNAL OF SOCIETY REVIEWS (INJOSER) is a scientific journal that publishes articles in the fields of humanity, social science. Humanities include: Language and Linguistics, History, Literature, Performing Arts, Philosophy, Religion, Fine Arts. Social Science fields of Science include: ...