Syakhshiyyah Jurnal Hukum Keluarga Islam
Vol 6 No 1 (2026): Syakhsiyyah: Jurnal Hukum Keluarga

Negotiation Between Santri Husband and Wife in Fulfilling Rights and Obligations: A Study at Al-Munawwir Islamic Boarding School, Krapyak, Yogyakarta

Muhammad Dzulfikri Yasir (Pondok Pesantren Al Itqan, Depok, Jawa Barat, Indonesia)
Zakiyuddin Abdul Adhim (Pengadilan Agama Soasio, Maluku Utara, Indonesia)
Syarif Bahaudin Mudore (Universitas Islam Negeri Raden Intan Lampung)



Article Info

Publish Date
15 Jun 2026

Abstract

Marriage among santri who continue to live within the pesantren environment presents distinctive challenges in fulfilling spousal rights and obligations, particularly when religious commitments such as Qur’anic memorization remain a priority after marriage. This article aims to examine the forms and mechanisms of negotiation employed by santri couples in fulfilling marital rights and obligations, as well as to analyze the role of the pesantren environment in shaping and constructing marital relations among couples who remain santri at Pondok Pesantren Al-Munawwir Krapyak Yogyakarta. This study employs field research with a case study design and a descriptive-analytical approach, using a normative-sociological framework. Data were collected through direct observation and in-depth interviews with two married santri couples residing in the pesantren, supported by secondary data from Islamic legal sources and relevant scholarly literature. Data analysis was conducted qualitatively using an inductive method within the theoretical framework of Pierre Bourdieu’s concepts of habitus, capital, and field. The findings indicate that santri couples develop distinctive negotiation patterns, including agreements to postpone cohabitation as a consequence of their commitment to Qur’anic memorization, which affects the normative fulfillment of spousal rights and obligations. However, these challenges are mitigated through shared commitment, intensive communication, and mutual understanding. The pesantren environment plays a significant role in shaping the couples’ habitus through the internalization of socio-cultural and religious values, such as acceptance and submission to the process (terimo ing pandum), which sustain marital continuity among santri couples.

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syakhsiyah

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Religion Humanities Law, Crime, Criminology & Criminal Justice Social Sciences Other

Description

Syakhshiyyah Jurnal Hukum Keluarga Islam is a scientific, peer-reviewed and open access interdisciplinary journal published twice a year (June and December). This journal is the result of a collaboration between Institut Agama Islam Negeri (IAIN) Metro Lampung and the Association of Indonesian ...