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Pemulihan Anak yang Mengalami Kekerasan dari Orang Tua Akibat Pandemi Covid-19 Asmat Purba; Lisna Novalia; Linda Zenita Simanjuntak
CHARISTHEO: Jurnal Teologi dan Pendidikan Agama Kristen Vol 1, No 2 (2022): Maret 2022
Publisher : Sekolah Tinggi Teologi Anugrah Indonesia

Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | Full PDF (292.728 KB) | DOI: 10.54592/jct.v1i2.26

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The purpose of this article is to find the right way for parents not to abuse their children both verbally and physically. As a good parent, be a guide in truth and comfort in times when children are sad or find problems. Children are God's gift to be loved by parents. They need to be loved, valued as God's creation, and want to be raised with compassion rather than by violence. Children who have been harmed by parents should not be allowed but should be restored immediately. This article discusses the recovery of children who experience violence from parents due to the Covid-19 pandemic. This research is qualitative, looking for phenomenal information in the community through online newspapers to obtain data by reducing certain parts and sorting according to the purpose of the research. Parents should pay attention and affection to their children under any circumstances. To children who have violence problems, parents are asked to provide guidance in the form of special counseling such as inner healing and guide children out of fines, bitter roots and free them to tell the root of the problem at hand.ABSTRAKTujuan dari artikel ini untuk menemukan cara yang tepat bagi para orang tua agar tidak melakukan kekerasan terhadap anak-anak mereka baik secara verbal maupun fisik. Sebagai orangtua yang baik justeru menjadi pembimbing dalam kebenaran dan penghibur di saat anak-nak bersedih atau menemukan masalah. Anak-anak adalah titipan Tuhan untuk dikasihi oleh orang tua. Mereka membutuhkan dikasihi, dihargai sebagai ciptaan Allah, dan ingin dibesarkan dengan kasih sayang bukan dengan kekerasan. Anak yang sudah terlanjur dilukai oleh orang tua tidak boleh dibiarkan tetapi harus segera dipulihkan. Artikel ini membahas pemulihan anak yang mengalami kekerasan dari orang tua akibat pandemi Covid-19. Penelitian ini bersifat kualitatif, mencari informasi yang fenomenal di masyarakat melalui Koran online untuk memperoleh data dengan mereduksi bagian-bagian tertentu dan memilah yang sesuai tujuan penelitian. Orang tua harus memberi perhatian dan kasih sayang pada anak-anaknya dalam keadaan apapun. Kepada anak yang memiliki masalah kekerasan maka orang tua diminta memberikan bimbingan dalam bentuk konseling khusus seperti inner healing dan menuntun anak-anak keluar dari dengan, akar pahit serta membebaskan mereka untuk menceritakan akar masalah yang dihadapi. Kata kunci: pemulihan; anak, kekerasan; orang tua; pandemi covid-19; konseling krisis; luka batin. 
Teknis Pendampingan Pastoral Konseling Terhadap Anak Yang Berduka Karena Kematian Orang Tua Akibat Covid-19 Asmat Purba; Alon Mandimpu Nainggolan; Martin L Manao
Jurnal Ilmiah Wahana Pendidikan Vol 8 No 11 (2022): Jurnal Ilmiah Wahana Pendidikan
Publisher : Peneliti.net

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This article aims to analyze, describe and propose how to technically provide pastoral assistance to children who experience grief due to the death of their parents due to Covid-19. The method used is descriptive qualitative, with a theological approach, Christian counseling, and applicative. Through this study found five consequences of the experience of grief in children, namely: children experience deep grief, trauma, anger, anxiety, and psychophysiological illness. That is why the author proposes four technical pastoral care for grieving children, namely, the counselor conducting interviews, the counselor being a good listener, the counselor guiding the recovery, and building a bereavement healing group. Through this research, it is hoped that ministers of God in various contexts can take part in pastoral care services for children grieving because of their parents’ death due to the viciousness of Covid-19. Children are the next generation of the church, so they must be helped according to their stage of development to be able to get through grief.