Retor, Esther Avilita
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PENGARUH PENGGEMBALAAN PRA NIKAH TERHADAP KESIAPAN EMOSIONAL DAN SPIRITUAL PASANGAN DALAM MEMASUKI PERNIKAHAN Lumunder, Epafras Mario; Retor, Esther Avilita; Kreysen, Inriany F.; Bawihu, Sylvia Evangelin; Awalo, Meri Lusia; Wolter Weol
ATOHEMA: Jurnal Teologi Pastoral Konseling Vol. 1 No. 3 (2024): Juli || ATOHEMA: Jurnal Teologi Pastoral Konseling
Publisher : PT. Giat Konseling Nusantara

Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.70420/vsah1n56

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This research explores the importance of premarital counseling and guidance programs in preparing couples to enter a harmonious and sustainable married life. The research was conducted using a literature review approach to analyze relevant literature, including books, scientific journal articles, and other relevant documents. The results show that premarital counseling programs play a crucial role in equipping couples with the necessary knowledge and skills, such as emotional readiness, effective communication skills, conflict resolution, and a deep understanding of the dynamics of marriage. The program also provides significant benefits in spiritual formation, which is important for enhancing the spiritual and emotional readiness of couples. Premarital shepherding helps couples understand the meaning and purpose of marriage according to spiritual values, improves communication and cooperation in family life, and strengthens commitment to marriage. This study emphasizes the need for adequate preparation through premarital counseling and guidance programs to reduce uncertainty and prepare couples for the challenges of married life.
Efektivitas Nyanyian Tradisional : Ma’kaaruyen Sebagai Refleksi Makna Hidup Rakat Minahasa Brek, Yohan; Rumate, Charga Jofial; Bokko, Lanny Sonia; Retor, Esther Avilita; Mumek, Immanuela Juliana
PADAMARA: Jurnal Psikologi dan Sosial Budaya Vol. 1 No. 1 (2024): Februari
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Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.70420/j7ve3340

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The Minahasa community is known for its fondness for singing or vocal music. The song that has become the identity of the Minahasa community is known as Ma'kaaruyen. This research explores how the Minahasa community's way of life is interpreted through the song Ma'kaaruyen; a traditional musical artwork originating from Minahasa. Ma'kaaruyen is assumed to be one of the arts that reflects the life of the Minahasa community. Through a qualitative descriptive approach and analysis of the text found in the Ma'kaaruyen song, it was found that it contains meanings that integrate with the values of the Minahasa community's way of life. The musical elements in Ma'kaaruyen reflect the character and nature of traditional Minahasa society, which are associated with simplicity, tranquility, gentleness, cooperation (mapalus), and a loving attitude towards others. The extramusical meaning of Ma'kaaruyen from its lyrics is that Ma'kaaruyen is a song that conveys religious messages, advice, love, and expressions of the heart (lamentation and regret). Thus, the Ma'kaaruyen song has a reconciling function, which includes four main aspects of living in peace: a) reconciling with Allah, b) reconciling with oneself, c) reconciling with fellow human beings, and d) reconciling with the environment.