Proceeding of International Conference on Humanity Education and Society
Vol. 1 No. 1 (2022): First International Conference on Humanity Education and Socety (ICHES)

UNLOCKING THE TRADITION OF KHITBAH (ENGAGEMENT) IN RURAL ISLAMIC FAMILY

Abdul Halim (IAI Al-Qodiri Jember)
Asmad Hanisy (IAI Al-Qodiri Jember)



Article Info

Publish Date
18 May 2023

Abstract

ABSTRACTBeing a sakinah, mawaddah, warahmah family is the main goal of those who have carried out a marriage. In social life, it is not legal if someone carries out a marriage procession without starting with khitbah or or, in society called a fiance. This is the main door to enter the marriage room even though it is not like that, because actually the fiance is one of the efforts towards the occurrence of marriage, the meaning is, with the fiance, it is a sign that he already has one. Therefore, this study uses qualitative research methods with the type of case study research to be able to directly describe the circumstances, characteristics of the facts (individuals, groups and circumstances) that occur in society, so that an overview of the actual situation can be obtained, related to the dynamics of engagement among rural Muslims. When researcher conducted observations, interviews, regarding engagement, The researcher has found that there were traditions or habits, for example: choosing a mate, looking at origins, seeing the day and date, shaking hands, visiting each other, spending the night, walking together, together in a quiet place (khalwat).Keywords: Dynamics, Engagement, Rural Islamic Family

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Humanities Economics, Econometrics & Finance Education Languange, Linguistic, Communication & Media Social Sciences Other

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