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STABILITAS EMOSI PELAKU PERNIKAHAN DINI DALAM MENDIDIK ANAK BALITA Syamsul Hadi
QAWWAM Vol. 13 No. 2 (2019): Gender Mainstreaming
Publisher : Pusat Studi Gender dan Anak Universitas Islam Negeri (UIN) Mataram

Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.20414/qawwam.v13i2.1709

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Angka pernikahan dini dari tahun ke tahun terus mengalami peningkatan yang disebabkan oleh faktor ekonomi, faktor internal keluarga, dan faktor pergaulan. Kebanyakan pelaku pernikahan dini masih SMP dan SMA yang belum memiliki stabilitas emosi yang baik dan cenderung melakukan segala yang diinginkan tanpa memikirkan dampak yang akan terjadi. Banyak dari pelaku pernikahan dini telah memiliki anak, dimana dalam mendidik anak terutama ibu dengan nikah dini secara tidak sadar menerapkan pola pendidikan permisif. Keadaan pribadi dan sikap setiap anak yang berbeda, menjadikan tugas mendidik menjadi berat untuk dilaksanakan, dan berpengaruh pada keadaan emosi orang tua. Hasil penelitian menunjukkan bahwa kestabilan emosi pelaku pernikahan dini dalam mendidik anak belum baik, hal ini dikarenakan pelaku pernikahan dini masih mudah terpengaruh emosi negatif yang dapat dilihat dari respon emosi yang ditunjukkan. Respon emosi berlebihan tidak sesuai dengan pengertian stabilitas emosi, yaitu keadaan emosi yang tetap, tidak mudah berubah, dan respon yang ditunjukkan tidak berlebihan. Dalam meredakan emosi negatif dan menyelesaikan permasalah yang terjadi, pelaku pernikahan dini lebih sering menyerahkan pada keadaan dengan anggapan bahwa emosi tersebut akan hilang jika dibiarkan, tanpa ada usaha untuk mencari jalan keluar atau metode penyelesaian masalah yang sesuai. Meski pelaku pernikahan dini belum memiliki stabilitas emosi yang baik, namun beberapa pelaku pernikahan dini telah mampu untuk menjaga stabilitas emosi mereka dengan cara menenangkan diri terlebih dahulu dan menyelesaikan permasalahan yang menjadi sumber emosi.
KOMUNIKASI KONSELING SEBAGAI MEDIA PARENTING Syamsul Hadi; Dwi Widarna Lita Putri
TASÂMUH Vol. 14 No. 2 (2017)
Publisher : Universitas Islam Negeri (UIN) Mataram

Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | Full PDF (361.008 KB) | DOI: 10.20414/tasamuh.v14i2.148

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One of the human needs when interacting with others are communicating. Communication as human interactions is done either consciously or unconscious. The value that is contained in the communication have an effect for each individual depending on the way of understanding and building the perception of it. Humans could create the conditions it wants according to the pattern of communication that is used. Integration between the characteristics of communication and counselling has a different charge, mix of communication science with counselling, creating a feeling of parenting that is so typical. Characteristics of communication and counselling are integrated as a medium to deliver change on parenting. That is because the process of counselling has curative and preventive properties with the aim to optimise the development of the individual or the man himself, based on knowledge. Parenting as a basic foundation of the formation of psychic, emotional and behaviour. Flower growing humans as individuals are influenced by parenting that he obtained with different types of parenting, namely democracy, authoritarian parenting and permissive.
DISHARMONI KELUARGA DAN SOLUSINYA PERSPEKTIF FAMILY THERAPY (Studi Kasus Di Desa Telagawaru Kecamatan Labuapi Lombok Barat) Syamsul Hadi; Dwi Widarna Lita Putri; Amrina Rosyada
TASÂMUH Vol. 18 No. 1 (2020): DAKWAH DAN KOMUNIKASI
Publisher : Universitas Islam Negeri (UIN) Mataram

Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | Full PDF (368.066 KB) | DOI: 10.20414/tasamuh.v18i1.1761

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ABSTRAK Penelitian ini dilatar belakangi oleh perhatian penulis terkait dengan disharmoni keluarga (relasi antar pasangan) dan solusinya perspektif family therapy. Penelitian ini bertujuan untuk mencari tahu apa penyebab disharmoni keluarga (Relasi antar Pasangan) di Desa Telagawau Kecamatan Labuapi dan Solusinya Perspektif Family Therapy. Hasil penelitiannya menunjukkan (1) penyebab disharmoni keluarga (relasi pasangan) di Desa Telagawaru Kecamatan Labuapi ialah masalah kesibukan pasangan dan belum terpenuhinya kebutuhan materi, minimnya pengetahuan kerumahtanggaan, sikap egosentrisme pasangan, terjadinya pernikahan dini, suami istri dan anggota keluarga tidak pernah atau jarang duduk bersama membahas keberlangsungan rumah tangga sehingga mempengaruhi hubungan dari kwalitas keluarganya kurang baik. (2) solusinya perspektif family therapy ialah mengenali masalah, mengkomunikasikan masalah kepada orang yang yang tepat, mengembangkan tindakan alternatif, memutuskan satu tindakan khusus, mengambil tindakan, mengevalusi keberhasilan tindakan itu. Kata Kunci: Disharmoni Keluarga, Solusi, Family Therapy
PENYESUAIAN SOSIAL ANAK PENYANDANG TUNANETRA (STUDI KASUS MAHASISWI UIN SUNAN KALIJAGA YOGYAKARTA) Samsul Hadi; Yayuk Hidayati
Al-Tazkiah : Jurnal Bimbingan dan Konseling Islam Vol. 6 No. 1 (2017)
Publisher : Universitas Islam Negeri Mataram

Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | Full PDF (901.598 KB) | DOI: 10.20414/altazkiah.v6i1.112

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Penelitian ini bertujuan untuk melihat hubungan sosial penyandang tuna netra dengan lingkungan dan melihat penerapan dari kategori penyesuaian sosial menurut Hurlock pada anak penyandang tunanetra yang ada di Yogyakarta. Responden penelitian terdiri dari dua orang penyandang tunanetra yang ada di Yogyakarta. Penelitian ini adalah penelitian kualitatif dengan jenis penelitian lapangan (field research), pengumpulan data dengan menggunakan observasi dan wawancara. Berdasarkan hasil penelitian dan pembahasan dapat disimpulkan bahwa Hubungan sosial penyandang tunanetra dengan lingkungan kurang baik, terutama pada aitem kepercayaan diri dalam menjalani kehidupan sebagai penyandang tunanetra. Teori Hurlock tantang penyesuaian sosial tidak secara keseluruhan aitem yang menjadi kebutuhan bagi anak penyandang tunanetra karena setiap individu memiliki aitem dalam penyesuaian sosial yang lebih diprioritaskan dibandingkan dengan aitem penyesuaian sosial yang lainnya.
PENANGANAN PERILAKU BULLYING TEMAN SEBAYA MENGGUNAKAN ANALISIS TRANSAKSIONAL DAN KONSELING ISLAM DI MTS PUTRA AL-ISHLAHUDDINY Syamsul Hadi; Hilyatun Zohriana
Al-Tazkiah : Jurnal Bimbingan dan Konseling Islam Vol. 9 No. 1 (2020): BRIEF COUNSELING AND PSYCHOTHERAPY
Publisher : Universitas Islam Negeri Mataram

Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.20414/altazkiah.v9i1.2218

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Fenomena pada penelitian ini berupa perilaku bullying siswa di dunia pendidikan khususnya di Mts Putra Al-Ishlahuddiny. Bentuk perilaku bullying yang terjadi antar siswa Mts Putra Al-Ishlahuddiny seperti mengejek, memukul, menendang, menyuruh-nyuruh seperti penguasa, dan meminta uang secara paksa. Pendekatan dalam Penanganan yang diberikan oleh Guru BK dalam meminimalisir perilaku bullying siswa di Mts Putra Al-Ishlahuddiny dengan pendekatan konseling Analisis Transaksional dan Konseling Islam. Penelitian ini menggunakan metode penelitian kualitatif. Hasil penelitian menunjukkan pelaku bullying memiliki kesadaran akan kesalahannya sehingga perilaku bullying berkurang.
The Complex Phenomenon Of Community Education: The Lives And Socio-Psychological Resilience Of Indonesian Migrant Workers In Malaysia Ahyar; Saleh, Muhammad; Nurul Yaqinah, Siti; Amrulloh, Zaenudin; Hadi, Syamsul; Bin Ibrahim, Abdullah; Khairul Aiman Bin Wan Mokhtar, Wan
TASAMUH Vol. 23 No. 1 (2025): Management and Communication Strategy of Da’wah and Education in Contemporary
Publisher : Universitas Islam Negeri (UIN) Mataram

Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.20414/tasamuh.v23i1.12328

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The number of Indonesian Migrant Workers has increased significantly from year to year. However, this increase in numbers is not accompanied by guarantees of protection obtained from the state. Various cases related to migrant workers are increasing, ranging from legal protection to life protection. This research will examine the complexity of the problems of Indonesian migrant workers in terms of the life and social security experienced by Indonesian migrant workers. This research shows that the socio-psychological experiences of migrant workers center on life learning gained through job satisfaction and its consequences. Meanwhile, in terms of human capital (community education), migrant workers receive little good learning that focuses on problems and the creativity of migrant workers in solving their problems. There is also a lack of experience among migrant workers in integrating new information with their experiences.
Resilience among Elderly Widows in Lombok, Indonesia: A Case Study on Coping with Spousal Loss Isatan Rodiah; Syamsul Hadi; Herlina Fitriana; Hidayahtus Sabrina
JIGC (Journal of Islamic Guidance and Counseling) Vol. 9 No. 1 (2025): JIGC (Journal of Islamic Guidance and Counseling)
Publisher : UIN Sulthan Thaha Saifuddin Jambi

Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.30631/jigc.v9i1.100

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Becoming widowed in old age is a major challenge for women, often accompanied by grief, financial vulnerability, and social marginalization. However, many widows demonstrate resilience, namely the capacity to adapt and even grow when facing adversity. This study explores resilience among elderly widows in Lombok, Indonesia, within the cultural framework of the Sasak community. Using a qualitative case study design, data were collected from three participants through in-depth interviews, observation, and documentation, then analyzed with Miles and Huberman’s interactive model. The findings reveal that resilience develops through four interrelated stages: succumbing, survival, recovery, and thriving. Initially, participants experienced deep sorrow, but gradually adapted by reorganizing routines, relying on religious practices, and strengthening family and community ties. In some cases, this adaptation extended to the thriving stage, where widows discovered new meaning and contributed actively to their families and society. This resilience was supported by internal factors—such as spirituality, optimism, self-efficacy, and emotional regulation—as well as external support, including family, community networks, cultural norms, and health services. The study enriches resilience theory by confirming a staged and ecological model, while also accounting for specific cultural pathways shaped by spirituality and collectivist traditions. Practically, the findings underscore the importance of culturally grounded interventions, integrating spiritual practices, family support, and community care into counseling and social welfare programs for widows. Thus, adaptation to spousal loss is not only a psychological process, but also a culturally embedded pathway of recovery and growth.
Penguatan Kognitif Dan Emosional Ibu Dengan Peran Ganda Dalam Mempertahankan Rumah Tangga Sasmita, Windy; Hadi, Syamsul
Jurnal Bimbingan dan Konseling Islam Vol. 13 No. 2 (2023): Desember
Publisher : Jurusan Bimbingan dan Konseling Islam

Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.29080/jbki.2023.13.2.139-152

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This research was carried out using group counseling services provided by Civil Society Organizations (CSOs). The group counseling process aims to help mothers with multiple roles in maintaining their household and resolving the problems they face. This research uses a qualitative descriptive approach. The research subjects consisted of 3 mothers with dual roles aged 33-46 years and working as cadres in OMS. The data analysis used is data reduction, data presentation, and drawing conclusions. The results of the research show that cognitive and emotional strengthening efforts begin with the pre-counseling process, the initial stage, the work stage and the final stage. Mothers with multiple roles receive education and positive enthusiasm while participating in group counseling activities held at OMS. Apart from that, mothers with dual roles felt that while attending group counseling mothers with dual roles were able to solve problems because there were many solutions and motivation provided so that mothers with dual roles were able to think rationally in making decisions in an effort to maintain their household.
A Digital-Based Islamic Guidance and Counseling Service Model: The HiDende Application Innovation for Building a Sexual-Violence-Free Campus Hadi, Syamsul; Dwi Widarna Lita Putri
G-Couns: Jurnal Bimbingan dan Konseling Vol. 10 No. 02 (2026): April 2026, G-Couns: Jurnal Bimbingan dan Konseling
Publisher : Universitas PGRI Yogyakarta

Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.31316/g-couns.v10i02.8219

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Cases of sexual violence continue to occur in higher education institutions in Indonesia, with 1,011 cases reported across sixteen campuses, including universities in West Nusa Tenggara. Given this condition, this study is important to conduct by developing a digitally based Islamic Guidance and Counseling service model, in the form of the HiDende application, to support the creation of a campus free of sexual violence. This research aims to develop a model for the prevention and handling of sexual violence through digital-based Islamic Guidance and Counseling services using the HiDende application. The study employs a Research and Development approach with the ADDIE design. The results yield a digitally based Islamic Guidance and Counseling service model, namely the HiDende cybercounseling application. Research findings indicate that the application integrates preventive strategies through interactive educational content and curative services through anonymous counseling with psychologists. The study concludes that the HiDende Mobile App provides a practical and adaptive digital Islamic Guidance and Counseling service model. The implications suggest that HiDende can serve as a strategic digital solution for universities in preventing and addressing sexual violence effectively and sustainably. Keywords: islamic guidance and counseling, digital counseling, hidende application, sexual violence, college