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Peningkatan Pemahaman Realitas Dan Dampak Sosial Pernikahan Dini Di Ypmi Miftahul Huda Ulujami Jakarta Selatan M. Aska Askia; Duna Izfanna; Rifaldi Nurul Akbar
Jurnal Pengabdian Masyarakat (Bisma) Vol. 2 No. 1 (2024): Jurnal Pengabdian Masyarakat (Bisma)
Publisher : Universitas Darunnajah, Jakarta, Indonesia

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The Islamic religion implies marriage as the only form of living in pairs that is justified and recommended to be developed in forming a family. According to Law Number 1 of 1974, marriage is an inner and outer bond between a man and a woman as husband and wife to form a happy and eternal family (household) based on the belief in the Almighty God. This activity uses a true experimental pre-test approach. -post-test design using lecture, discussion, and question and answer methods to determine the level of knowledge and understanding of the participants both before the activity starts and after the activity is completed. The increase in knowledge and understanding from pre-test to post-test is meaningful for participants and is a benchmark for the success of this activity. Participants gain additional knowledge and understanding regarding the prevention of early marriage, and it is hoped that participants will share their knowledge, especially in the surrounding environment where participants live. Before the activity was carried out, 80% of workshop participants did not understand the material related to early marriage. However, there is an increase in knowledge and understanding. From the results of the posttest, as many as 98% of participants understood and gained better knowledge about early marriage. The results of the post-test showed that participants in counseling activities gained increased knowledge and insight regarding what drives early marriage, the risks that can occur, and the impact they will get. Workshop participants also know and understand what must be done to prevent early marriage.
Matchmaking Strategies for Marital Success: A Case Study of Nurul Hikmah Islamic Boarding School in Tegal, Indonesia M. Aska Askia; Muhamad Towil Akhirudin
Muwafaqat: Journal of Islamic Law Vol. 1 No. 2 (2025): Muwafaqat: Journal of Islamic Law
Publisher : Cv. Kayaswara, Indonesia

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The practice of matchmaking at Nurul Hikmah Islamic Boarding School in Tuwel, Tegal, constitutes a distinctive socio-religious tradition that warrants scholarly examination, as it involves not only the prospective couple but also the active participation of the Kyai (Islamic religious leader) and parents in facilitating marital success. This study aims to analyze matchmaking strategies and their influence on marital success at Nurul Hikmah Islamic Boarding School. A qualitative case study approach was employed, with data collected through in-depth interviews, participant observation, and document analysis, involving nine purposively selected informants comprising Masayikh, students, alumni, married couples, and community leaders. Data were analyzed using the interactive model of Miles, Huberman, and SaldaƱa, encompassing data condensation, data display, and conclusion drawing, with trustworthiness ensured through methodological and source triangulation. The findings reveal that: (1) the matchmaking strategy at Nurul Hikmah Islamic Boarding School is grounded in religious considerations, alignment of life vision, and shared pesantren educational backgrounds, with the Kyai and parents serving as advisors and mediators who ensure couple compatibility (kafa'ah) based on Islamic values; and (2) several interconnected factors, including strong religious commitment, effective communication, family and community support, and the psychological-emotional readiness of the couple influence marital success. This study concludes that matchmaking strategies grounded in Islamic values, coupled with the active involvement of the Kyai and parents, can foster harmonious, spiritually blessed marriages characterized by sakinah, mawaddah, and warahmah.