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Journal : USRAH: Jurnal Hukum Keluarga Islam

SINTESIS SOLUSI ISLAM TERHADAP POLA KOMUNIKASI DESTRUKTIF ‘THE FOUR HORSEMEN’ DALAM PERNIKAHAN: KAJIAN TEORETIS DAN PRAKTIS Muhammad Fariq Firdaus; Akhmad Husaini
USRAH: Jurnal Hukum Keluarga Islam Vol. 6 No. 4 (2025): Oktober
Publisher : LPPM STAI Muhammadiyah Probolinggo

Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.46773/usrah.v6i4.2340

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Destructive communication in marriage is one of the main causes of damaged relationships between spouses. John Gottman identified four negative communication patterns known as The Four Horsemen: criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling, which have been proven to predict divorce. This study aims to analyze and synthesize the solutions offered by Gottman through The Antidotes with the principles of communication in Islam. Using a qualitative descriptive approach and a library research method, this study analyzes primary sources from Gottman's theory and widely recognized Islamic references. The findings show that Islamic solutions not only align with Gottman's psychological approach but also reinforce it with spiritual values such as self-reflection (muhasabah), emotional regulation, and mutual consultation (shura). This synthesis offers a more holistic approach to building healthy marital communication that is also spiritually meaningful. The study is expected to enrich the literature on marital communication by integrating modern psychology with Islamic values.
ANALISIS FIKIH TERHADAP HAKIKAT OPEN MARRIAGE DAN STATUS HUKUMNYA Tresna Samudra; Akhmad Husaini
USRAH: Jurnal Hukum Keluarga Islam Vol. 6 No. 4 (2025): Oktober
Publisher : LPPM STAI Muhammadiyah Probolinggo

Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.46773/usrah.v6i4.2355

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This study examines the practice of open marriage from the perspective of Islamic jurisprudence as a form of consensual non-monogamous relationship between legally married spouses. The method employed is qualitative, using a library research approach with descriptive-analytical analysis and textual criticism within the framework of uṣūl al-fiqh. The analysis follows several methodological stages: taṣwīr al-mas’alah (conceptual framing), takyīf al-fiqhī (legal classification), taḥqīq al-manāṭ (validation of legal cause), and istinbāṭ al-ḥukm (derivation of ruling), based on sources from the Qur’an, ḥadīth, scholarly consensus (ijmāʿ), and both classical and contemporary fiqh literature. The findings indicate that open marriage does not fulfill the essential conditions of lawful intimate relations in Islam and resembles pre-Islamic marriage practices abrogated by the Prophet ﷺ. Based on legal maxims such as al-aṣl fī al-abḍāʿ al-taḥrīm and al-ḍarar lā yuzāl bi al-ḍarar, it is classified as zinā muḥarram and al-fawāḥish. Within the framework of maqāṣid al-sharīʿah, it contradicts the preservation of dignity (ḥifẓ al-ʿird), lineage (ḥifẓ al-nasl), and religion (ḥifẓ al-dīn). Academic arguments supporting CNM, emphasizing freedom and consent, are critically assessed as inconsistent with Islamic values. Therefore, open marriage is deemed absolutely prohibited under Islamic law.