Lalompoh, Suryaningsi Dorthea
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KONSELING PASTORAL SEBAGAI PENDAMPINGAN BAGI PEMUDA YANG SULIT KELUAR DARI TOXIC RELATIONSHIP DALAM PACARAN Lalompoh, Suryaningsi Dorthea; Londo, Elsye Esterina
ATOHEMA: Jurnal Teologi Pastoral Konseling Vol. 1 No. 1 (2024): Januari || ATOHEMA: Jurnal Teologi Pastoral Konseling
Publisher : PT. Giat Konseling Nusantara

Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.70420/cr829631

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This research is motivated by a common phenomenon, namely the occurrence of toxic relationships in dating relationships. Toxic relationships that should be immediately repaired or ended, but in reality many persist and find it difficult to get out of these relationships, one of which happened to three Christian youths in Sangihe Islands Regency. Based on the research conducted, it was found that the reason they find it difficult to get out and therefore stay in a toxic relationship is because they are emotionally dependent, feel great love for their partner, hope that their partner will change, are easily persuaded by their partner, and imagine a relationship that has existed for a long time. By choosing to stay in this relationship, there are negative impacts experienced, namely affecting the young man's physical, psychological, spiritual health and social situation. Based on this problem, it is very important to carry out pastoral counseling as an effort to provide assistance to young people who have difficulty getting out of toxic relationships. This is important because young Christians need to continue to receive attention from the church, because they are the backbone of the church. So that the caring and caring attitude of the church can be realized through pastoral counseling to help them get through this period by providing understanding so that they can make the right decisions, experience recovery from all the wounds they have experienced, and experience peace.
Dimensi Dalam Mengucap Syukur : Relevansi Tradisi Minahasa Foso Rummages dalam Praktik Pastoral Konseling Kontemporer Rumate, Charga Jofial; Kreysen, Inriany F.; Bokko, Lanny; Lalompoh, Suryaningsi Dorthea; Ralendesang, Nivtrik Netson; Bawihu, Sylvia Evangelin; Kalensang, Geby Ladesya; Sapoh, Fani; Mamesah, Joice Stella; Asman, Fhilia Alci Angela; Luma, Subaedah
PARADOSI: Jurnal Teologi Praktika Vol. 1 No. 1 (2024): PARADOSI: Jurnal Teologi Praktika
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Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.70420/r56edy71

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This study examines the relevance of the Minahasa tradition of Foso Rumages in pastoral counseling practice from a contemporary perspective. The Minahasa tradition is rich in cultural values that can significantly support the pastoral counseling process. Cultural values of Minahasa religiosity, such as awareness of the supernatural, belief in life before and after death, and the celebration of Foso Rumages, provide a strong theological foundation for dialogue with the Christian faith. This research uses a descriptive qualitative approach to depict and analyze existing phenomena, emphasizing the characteristics, qualities, and interrelationships between cultural traditions and pastoral counseling practices. Through the integration of values of community and togetherness, respect for ancestors, and the use of rituals and symbolism from Minahasa traditions, this study finds that these cultural elements can enhance the effectiveness of pastoral counseling. The results of this research show that the integration of Minahasa traditions in pastoral counseling practice not only increases the effectiveness of counseling but also ensures that the approaches used are aligned with the cultural and spiritual values of the clients. This supports a more comprehensive and sustainable healing process and makes a significant contribution to the development of more inclusive and locally-oriented pastoral counseling practices.   Penelitian ini mengkaji relevansi tradisi Minahasa Foso Rumages dalam praktik konseling pastoral dari perspektif kontemporer. Tradisi Minahasa kaya akan nilai-nilai budaya yang dapat mendukung proses konseling pastoral secara signifikan. Nilai-nilai religiusitas budaya Minahasa, seperti kesadaran akan supranatural, kepercayaan pada kehidupan sebelum dan sesudah kematian, dan perayaan foso rumages, memberikan dasar teologis yang kuat untuk percakapan dengan agama Kristen. Penelitian ini menggunakan pendekatan kualitatif deskriptif untuk menggambarkan dan menganalisis fenomena yang ada, menekankan karakteristik, kualitas, dan keterkaitan antara tradisi budaya dan praktik konseling pastoral. Melalui integrasi nilai-nilai kebersamaan dan komunitas, penghormatan terhadap leluhur, serta penggunaan ritual dan simbolisme dari tradisi Minahasa, penelitian ini menemukan bahwa elemen-elemen budaya ini dapat meningkatkan efektivitas konseling pastoral. Hasil dari penelitian ini menunjukkan bahwa integrasi tradisi Minahasa dalam praktik konseling pastoral tidak hanya meningkatkan efektivitas konseling tetapi juga memastikan bahwa pendekatan yang digunakan selaras dengan nilai-nilai budaya dan spiritual klien. Hal ini mendukung proses penyembuhan yang lebih komprehensif dan berkelanjutan, serta memberikan kontribusi signifikan dalam pengembangan praktik pastoral konseling yang lebih inklusif dan berorientasi pada kearifan lokal.