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ISSN : 19077238     EISSN : 24772100     DOI : http://dx.doi.org/10.21043/kr
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KONSELING RELIGI Jurnal Bimbingan Konseling Islam(ISSN 1907-7238; E-ISSN 2477-2100) accredited B Ministry of Research, Technology and Higher Education No. 36a / E / KPT / 2016 dated 23 May 2016, is an academic journal that emphasizes on actual issues related to Islamic guidance and counseling. Journal of Counseling Religi Journal of Islamic Counseling Guidance is published twice a year (once every six months, issued in June and December) by the Program Studi Bimbingan Konseling Islam Fakultas Dakwah dan Komunikasi Islam Institut Agama Islam Negeri (IAIN) Kudus. SK ISSN was published on July 31, 2006 and is valid since the first Journal of Vol.1, No 1, June 2010. The editors receive contributions from experts to submit their thoughts related to da'wah, guidance, counseling.
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KONSELING PERNIKAHAN BERBASIS ASMARA ( As-Sakinah, Mawaddah, Wa Rahmah )
KONSELING RELIGI Vol 7, No 2 (2016): KONSELING RELIGI
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Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.21043/kr.v7i2.1876

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Keluarga merupakan sistem sosial yang alamiah dan keluarga berfungsi membentuk aturan-aturan, komunikasi serta negosiasi diantara para anggota keluarga. Ketiga fungsi keluarga ini mempunyai sejumlah implikasi terhadap perkembangan dan keberadaan para anggota keluarga. Keluarga melakukan suatu pola interaksi yang diulang-ulang melalui partisipasi seluruh anggota keluarga. Sehingga strategi konseling pernikahan yang dibangun akan membantu terpeliharanya hubungan-hubungan keluarga harmonis As-Sakinah, Mawaddah, Wa Rahmah juga dituntut untuk memodifikasi pola-pola transaksi dalam memenuhi kebutuhan keluarga yang mengalami perubahan yang didambakan. Membangun Keluarga bahagia melalui pendekatan konseling pernikahan pada dasarnya merupakan upaya untuk memperoleh kebahagiaan dan kesejahteraan hidup baik lahir maupun batin. Keluarga dibentuk untuk memadukan rasa kasih dan sayang diantara dua makhluk berlainan jenis, yang berlanjut untuk menyebarkan rasa kasih dan sayang keibuan dan keayahan terhadap seluruh anggota keluarga. Namun apa yang didambakan, apa yang diidealkan serta apa yang seharusnya dalam kenyataan tidak senantiasa berjalan mulus sebagaimana mestinya. Kebahagiaan yang diharapkan semoga dapat diraih dari bahtera kehidupan berumah tangga dan bukan sebaliknya yang kerapkali dirasakan justru kesedihan.Kata kunci : konseling pernikahan, sakinah mawaddah wa rahmah MARRIAGE COUNSELING BASED ON AS-SAKINAH MAWADDAH WA RAHMAH. The family is the natural and social system functioning family formed the rules, communication and negotiations between members of the family. The three functions of this family has a number of implications for the development and the existence of the family members. Perform a family interaction patterns that are repeated through the participation of all members of the family. So the marriage counselling strategy built will help the nurturing harmonious family relationships, As-Sakinah, Mawaddah Wa Rahmah is also required to modify the patterns of discounted rates in meeting the needs of the family experiencing the changes longed. Build happy family through marriage counselling approach is basically an attempt to gain happiness and prosperity of life in both the physical and the spiritual sense. The family was formed to integrate the feeling of love and affection between two different kinds of creatures that continues to spread compassion and mercy motherhood and fatherhood leads to all members of the family. But what longed, what diidealkan and what should be in reality does not always run smoothly properly. The expected happiness may be achieved from the ark life housekeeping and rather an often felt thus sorrow.Key Words : marriage counselling, sakinah mawaddah wa rahmah
Pre-Marriage Guidance as an Effort to Form Harmonious Families in the Office of Religious Affairs (KUA) Perspective of Islamic Satisfaction
KONSELING RELIGI Vol 11, No 2 (2020): December 2020
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Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.21043/kr.v11i2.8730

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This study aims to determine Pre-Marriage Guidance as an Effort to Form Harmonious Families in the Office of Religious Affairs (KUA) Perspective of Islamic Satisfaction and some of its problems. This research was conducted at the Office of Religious Affairs (KUA) of Bae Kudus District. This article is the result of field research with a qualitative approach. Data collection uses interview, observation and documentation and triangulation methods. The number of informants is 12 people using non-possible sampling and the determination of informants by purposive sampling. The results showed that: a) The role of religious counselors as guides in providing pre-marital guidance can form harmonious families with the satisfaction of Islamic marriage. With the couple's notes running the material delivered in pre-marital guidance; b) Pre-marital guidance in KUA of Bae District is carried out after an examination of administrative data of the bride and groom is carried out within 30-60 minutes. Material delivered about the ins and outs of married life to be fostered in the future. Among them are the rights and obligations as husband and wife and so forth. The methods used in pre-marital guidance are lectures, questions and answers and discussions in the form of seminars; c) Problems in pre-marital guidance activities include lack of time, lack of concern for the catin (bride-to-be), the distance where Catin lives and funding from the government. Things that support are a comfortable environment, knowledge of qualified religious instructors, pre-supporting facilities and good KUA citizen participation.
KONTRIBUSI KEPRIBADIAN DAN DUKUNGAN SOSIAL TERHADAP TINGKAT KECEMASAN ISTERI DALAM MENGHADAPI PERCERAIAN
KONSELING RELIGI Vol 5, No 1 (2014): KONSELING RELIGI
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Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.21043/kr.v5i1.1061

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Perceraian adalah kondisi yang sering digunakan untuk mengakhiri perkawinan.  Keputusan ini  biasanya salah satu cara akhir untuk menghindari konflik antara mereka. Namun, keputusan ini digunakan untuk  diikuti oleh  kecemasan dan stress. Ia dapat terjadi karena perceraian akan membuat beberapa perubahan dan kondisi buruk, terutama untuk isteri. Perubahan- perubahan ini  melibatkan pemenuhan keuangan, mengubah pandangan masyarakat yang membuat mereka merasa bersalah, sebuah khawatir bahwa mereka tidak dapat memenuhi kebutuhan mereka sendiri, sebuah khawatir anak-anak mereka di masa depan, mendapat malu dan putus asa. Penelitian  ini bertujuan untuk menemukan (1)  ada hubungan antara kecemasan perceraian isteri dan dukungan sosial (2)ada hubungan antara kecemasan perceraian isteri dan kepribadian.  Variabel independen dalam penelitian ini adalah dukungan sosial, dan kepribadian  dalam Lima Besar Teori Kepribadian, termasuk neuroticism personaliti, extrovert, agreeableness, conscientiousness dan  buka  untuk pengalaman,  dengan subjek terdiri dari 60 isteri yang dalam pemrosesan perceraian di pelataran Pengadilan Agama Kabupaten Sleman (Mahkamah Agama di Kabupaten Sleman). Analisis data menggunakan teknik analisis regresi ganda. Mudah-mudahan hasil penelitian akan salah satu bahan consellor/phsychologists dalam memberikan bimbingan dan konseling iringan kepada klien yang mengalami masalah perceraian. Kata Kunci: Kecemasan, Dukungan Sosial, Perceraian THE  CONTRIBUTION OF  PERSONALITY AND  SOCIAL SUPPORT TO THE LEVEL OF THE ANXIETY OF THE WIFE IN THE FACE OF DIVORCE. Divorce  is a condition that often used to end marriage. This decision is usually  one of final ways to avoid conflicts between them. However, this decision used to followed by anxiety  and stress. It can be happen because the divorce will make some changes and bad condition, especially for the wife. These changes involve financial fulfillment, the change of people’s view that make them feel guilty, a worry that they can’t fulfill their own needs, a worry of their children’s future, shame and hopeless. This research is aimed to find (1) is there any relationship between anxiety divorce of wife and social support (2)is there any relationship between anxiety divorce of wife and personality. Independent variable in this research are social support and personality  in the Big Five Personality Theory, including personalities of neuroticism, extrovert, agreeableness, conscientiousness and open to experience, with the subject consist of 60 wives who in processing the divorce in the court of Pengadilan Agama Kabupaten Sleman (Religion Court in Sleman District). The data analysis uses regression analysis technique. Hopefully  the result of research wil be one of material for consellor/phsychologists in giving accompaniment guidance and counseling to clients who experienced problem divorce. Keywords: Anxiety, Social Support, Divorce
The Implementation of Fardiyah Da'wah in Peer Counseling to Prevent Free Sex
KONSELING RELIGI Vol 12, No 1 (2021): Juni 2021
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Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.21043/kr.v12i1.10095

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This paper explains how to analyze teenagers’ life using a case study in Adolescent Friendly Health Services (AFHS) at Public Health (Puskesmas) Blora. The research data were obtained through observation, interviews with the client, peer counseling, doctor, and paramedics in Puskesmas. The result found some forms of teenager’s free sex in Adolescent Friendly Health Services (AFHS) at Puskesmas Blora. Those actions were holding hands, kissing hands, kissing lips, making out, and doing premarital sex. The prevention effort with the peer counseling had been conducted in two ways of methods that are personal approach with the client and couching with the material given to them. The analysis showed that the implementation of fardiyah da'wah in peer counseling was in line with stages of fardiyah da’wah proposed by Abdul Wahid, namely building good relationships with mad’u and giving motivation to mad’u.
Circumflex Model of Family Therapy: Initiating Its Application on Parenting Mistakes to Child Early Age
KONSELING RELIGI Vol 10, No 1 (2019): June 2019
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Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.21043/kr.v10i1.5533

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The golden age in the development of early childhood requires more attention amid the emergence of the phenomenon of shifting family functions in the millennial era. Father's function and mothers who experience shifts are thought to have the potential for emergence of parenting problems.  The golden age is in need of good parenting, because an error of parenting during this period a significant impact on adulthood. This requires family therapy that is good and feasible to be used in intervening in cases of parenting errors with early childhood. This article aims to describe the theory of family therapy in the circumflex model popularized by Olson, analyzing and initiating its application in cases of parenting errors in early childhood. The idea of applying the therapy is complemented by the design of the stages and forms of therapy. The results of the study show that theoretically it is possible to apply circumcision family model therapy in cases of early childhood parenting errors, because early childhood leads to an internal problem three important dimensions in the circuit model to create a healthy and balanced family, namely the dimensions of closeness, adaptability or flexibility and family communication. The therapeutic design for families who experience parenting errors in early childhood is arranged in stages, stages or sessions of one to ten.
KARAKTERISTIK KONSELOR BAGI MAHASISWA ( PROGRAM STUDI LANGKA PEMINAT )
KONSELING RELIGI Vol 4, No 2 (2013): KONSELING RELIGI
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Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.21043/kr.v4i2.1018

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Berkaitan dengan respon pengguna jasa pada perguruan tinggi dikenal PT ekstrapeminat dan langka peminat. Perguruan Tinggi Agama Islam (PTAI) yang statusnya negeri atau swasta juga terpilah prodi gemuk dan kering (langka peminat). Prodi gemuk antara lain prodi yang mencetak calon guru agama. Dalihnya, calon pengguna jasa beranggapan bahwa sarjana pendidikan lahan kerjanya dianggap jelas yakni menjadi pendidik lapangan kerjanya di madrasah/sekolah.  Berbeda dengan sarjana ilmu tafsir, ilmu aqidah, atau ilmu dakwah yang lapangan kerjanya dianggap masih bias. Anggapan ini menjadi penyebab semakin menurunnya  minat calon mahasiswa  sehingga perlu peran ekstra sosok konselor yang diperankan dosen dan pejabat struktural bagi mahasiswa pada prodi langka peminat. Peran utama konselor tersebut untuk meyakinkan pada mahasiswa untuk tetap optimis menyelesaikan studi untuk mendapatkan gelar sarjana. Konselor berperan dalam perkuliahan dan di luar perkuliahan diharuskan melaksanakan tiga hal mendasar meliputi mengenalkan tentang optimisme di Jurusan Dakwah, luasnya prospek alumni sarjana Jurusan Dakwah, dan prinsip pelayanan konselor yang prima. Modal dasar yang dijadikan bahan penyuluhan oleh konselor adalah membangun hubungan saling percaya dan penuh kasih antara konselor dengan klien, menumbuhkan rasa diperhatikan bagi klien oleh konselor, memahami dan  mengenali perasaan emosi  klien, berusaha membantu menyelesaikan masalah, dan memberi pertimbangan dalam hal solusi yang tepat.kata kunci: Modal Dasar, Konselor, dan Prodi Langka Peminat.Related with the  user response services at the  college known rare Program  registrants. College of Islamic Religion (PTAI) the public or private status is also disaggregated fat and dried (rare enthusiasts) study program. Fat  Study Program among  others study program scored a religion teacher candidates. He argued, potential service users assume that undergraduate  education  is considered clear his  land that is to be educators their employment at the madrasah / school. In contrast to the scholars of Tafsir, the science of faith, or the science of da’wa that their employment is still considered biased. This assumption becomes the cause of the decline in student interest so need extra role played counselor figure lecturers and ranking officials for the students at the department  of rare registrants. The main role of the counselor to convince the students to remain optimistic completed the study to get a degree. Counselors play a role in the course and outside the lecture are required to carry out three fundamental things include introducing about optimism in the Department of Da’wa, the extent of the prospect of undergraduate alumni  of Da’wa, and the principle of excellent service counselors.Keywords:Basic Capital, Counselor Characteristics  and the study program rare registrants.
PROSES KOMUNIKASI DALAM KONSELING KAJIAN ISLAM BAGI MASYARAKAT DIGITAL DI BANDUNG
KONSELING RELIGI Vol 8, No 2 (2017): KONSELING RELIGI
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Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.21043/kr.v8i2.2645

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Jika berbicara mengenai konseling, maka kita akan teringat pada berbagai hal yang berhubungan dengan konsultasi. Konseling bisa mencakup semua aspek dalam kehidupan manusia. Pada era ini, kecenderungan masyarakat di Indonesia dikenal dengan masyarakat digital. Hal ini menyebabkan proses komunikasi pun sebagian besar dilakukan melalui media digital. Penulis juga menemukan fenomena adanya proses komunikasi konseling mengenai kajian islam yang dilakukan oleh sebagian besar masyarakat di Bandung dengan cara yang berbeda. Oleh karena itu, penulis tertarik mengangkat fenomena tentang model komunikasi dalam konseling kajian islam bagi masyarakat digital di Bandung. Dalam penelitian ini, penulis menggunakan pendekatan kualitatif dengan metode deskriptif. Hasil penelitian menggambarkan bahwa proses komunikasi dalam konseling kajian islam bagi masyarakat digital di Bandung meliputi beberapa tahapan, yaitu : (1) Adanya komunikator yang kredibel dari segi pendidikan agama islam; (2) Proses komunikasi dalam konseling kajian islam bagi masyarakat digital terjadi dalam aspek pesan verbal maupun non verbal; (3) Adanya kesepakatan untuk menggunakan media sosial Whatsapp dan LINE sebagai wadah konseling kajian islam bagi masyarakat digital di Bandung.
Parenting Patterns and Its Implications for Formation Religious Character in Early Childhood
KONSELING RELIGI Vol 11, No 2 (2020): December 2020
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Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.21043/kr.v11i2.8092

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The purpose of this study was to determine which form of parenting is the most dominant applied by parents in instilling religious characters in early childhood. Parenting is a process in the family, the interaction between parents and children. Parenting patterns have been applied since the child was born and adjusted to the age and stage of development. Learning in early childhood is the initial foundation of character building in children. Religious character education should be carried out comprehensively, covering all aspects of education, from the preparation of children from birth to efforts to strengthen children's physical and spiritual abilities, conveyed with advice, with examples well as well as with the process of getting used to good things so that it has implications for the personality of the child in adulthood. This study used an analysis descriptive qualitative method. To collect data, the researcher used three methods, namely: interview method, documentation, and observation method. The results showed that the parenting style of parents and its implications for the formation of a religious character in early childhood at TK Al-Hikmah Karangbesuki Sukun Malang is democratic and permissive parenting which is the most dominant applied.
MEMBENTUK KELUARGA SAKINAH MELALUI BIMBINGAN DAN KONSELING PERNIKAHAN
KONSELING RELIGI Vol 6, No 1 (2015): KONSELING RELIGI
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Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.21043/kr.v6i1.1041

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Islam menganjurkan umatnya untuk menikah karena memiliki tujuan-tujuan yang ingin dicapai.  Dibalik anjuran yang diperintahkan kepada umat manusia, pasti ada hikmahnya. Salah satu tujuan pernikahan seperti termaktub dalam surat ar-Rum ayat 21 adalah untuk memperoleh kententeraman, kenyamanan, rasa kasih dan sayang. Prinsip-prinsip  dasar pernikahan Islam yang harus diketahui oleh konselor pernikahan dapat dirumuskan sebagai berikut: Dalam memilih calon suami/istri, faktor agama/ akhlak calon harus menjadi pertimbangan pertama sebelum keturunan, rupa dan harta. Bahwa nikah atau hidup berumah tangga itu merupakan sunah Rasul bagi yang sudah mampu.. Bagi yang belum mampu disuruh bersabar dan puasa, tetapi jika dorongan nikah sudah tidak terkendali padahal ekonomi belum siap, sementara ia takut terjerumus pada perzinaan, maka agama menyuruh agar ia menikah.  Layaknya pakaian, masing-masing suami dan istri harus bisa menjalankan  fungsinya sebagai (a) penutup aurat (sesuatu yang memalukan) dari pandangan orang lain,  (b)  pelindung  dari panas dinginnya kehidupan, dan (c) kebanggaan dan keindahan bagi pasangannya. Dalam menjalani kehidupan berumah tangga ada kalanya diliputi  rasa senang maupun rasa duka. Untuk itu diperlukan bimbingan pernikahan sebagai tindakan preventif atau pencegahan supaya tidak terjadi perselisihan dalam rumah tangga. Namun, apabila sudah terjadi  perselisihan maka diperlukan konseling sebagai bentuk kuratif atau mencari solusi yang terbaik.  Karena itu bimbingan dan konseling pernikahan sangat diperlukan sebagai proses bantuan kepada para suami istri yang sedang mengalami permasalahan agar kehidupannya kembali normal seperti sediakala. kata kunci:  Keluarga Sakinah, Bimbingan Konseling, Pernikahan VEGAS FAMILY  FORMING THROUGH MARRIAGE GUIDANCE AND COUNSELING. Islam  recommends people to marry because it has the purpose of the goals to be achieved. Behind the disagreement is commanded  to mankind, there will be heedful. One of the goals of marriage as enshrined in Surat ar-Rum verse 21 is  to obtain kententeraman,  comfort,  compassion  and mercy. The basic principles of the marriage of Islam to be known by the marriage counselor can be formulated as follows: In selecting candidates for the husband/wife, the religious factor/morals  candidate must be the first consideration before the descendants of the appearance and wealth. That deed or live housekeeping it is an ordinance for which has been able to.. For those who have not been able to told to be patient and fasting , but if encouragement of marriage is not controlled when the economy  is not ready, while he was afraid to fall on adultery, then religion sent so that he married. Like clothes, each of the husband and wife must be able to perform its function as (a) the cover the nakedness of (something embarrassing) from the view of others, (b) from the heat cold life, and (c) pride and beauty for their husbands. In the live the life of housekeeping there are times covered the taste of pleasure and a sense of grief. For that needed the guidance of marriage as a preventive action or prevention that does not occur the dispute in the household. But when it happens the dispute then required counseling as a form of curative or search for the best solution. Therefore the guidance and counselling of marriage is very much needed as the process of aid to the husband and wife who is experiencing problems so that his life back to normal intact.Keywords: Family Sakinah, Guidance Counseling , Marriage.
Reviewing Islamic Counseling Through The Concept of Religious Coping
KONSELING RELIGI Vol 9, No 2 (2018): December 2018
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Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.21043/kr.v9i2.4662

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The results of field studies obtained results regarding the process of Islamic counseling work on Muslim client. Data was obtained through interviews conducted with two speakers, each of whom was a practitioner of Muslim psychology who carried out Islamic counseling services and a Muslim client. Processing data through testing the validity of data with data/source triangulation techniques. Data analysis using the Miles & Huberman model. The Islamic counseling work process is then explored through the concept of religious coping. In reviewing the concepts of religious coping, all stages in the series of processes of Islamic counseling work include the use of the concept of positive religious coping in all different types of religious functions. However, there is a concept of belief/faith/fitrah as an aspect targeted in Islamic counseling that cannot be correctly explained through the concept of religious coping. 

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