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KONSELING RELIGI
ISSN : 19077238     EISSN : 24772100     DOI : http://dx.doi.org/10.21043/kr
KONSELING RELIGI Jurnal Bimbingan Konseling Islam(ISSN 1907-7238; E-ISSN 2477-2100) accredited B Ministry of Research, Technology and Higher Education No. 36a / E / KPT / 2016 dated 23 May 2016, is an academic journal that emphasizes on actual issues related to Islamic guidance and counseling. Journal of Counseling Religi Journal of Islamic Counseling Guidance is published twice a year (once every six months, issued in June and December) by the Program Studi Bimbingan Konseling Islam Fakultas Dakwah dan Komunikasi Islam Institut Agama Islam Negeri (IAIN) Kudus. SK ISSN was published on July 31, 2006 and is valid since the first Journal of Vol.1, No 1, June 2010. The editors receive contributions from experts to submit their thoughts related to da'wah, guidance, counseling.
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BIMBINGAN KONSELING AGAMA DENGAN PENDEKATAN BUDAYA (MEMBENTUK RESILIENSI REMAJA)
KONSELING RELIGI Vol 7, No 1 (2016): KONSELING RELIGI
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Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.21043/kr.v7i1.1701

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AbstrakRemaja merupakan fase kehidupan yang menarik untuk dikaji, tentang perubahan: fisiknya yang cepat, ketidaknyamanan karena fungsi yang berubah-ubah “satu sisi masih dianggap kecil namun sisi lain dianggap sudah besar”, keinginan untuk “terlepas ikatan” dengan orang tua untuk tergabung dalam sebuah peer group, rasa penasaran terhadap perintah-perintah agama. Kondisi tersebut menyebabkan banyaknya remaja memiliki masalah, sehingga perilakunya aneh dan merasa berbeda dengan lingkungan sekitar. Belum lagi tuntutan budaya, yang menyebabkan remaja semakin sulit untuk beradaptasi dengan lingkungan. Oleh karenanya, dengan bimbingan konseling agama menumbuhkan kesadaran baru bahwa kondisi perubahan pada diri remaja adalah hal yang normal dan tetap beraktivitas dengan semangat untuk mengoptimalkan daya-daya yang dimiliki (biologis, psikologis, sosial, spiritual) untuk berpretasi meneruskan cita-cita keluarga dan negara. Sehingga membantu remaja untuk memiliki sikap lentur (resiliensi) agar mampu beradaptasi di beragam lingkungan budaya untuk menjadi generasi penerus yang berkualitas dengan berbagai prestasi yang membanggakan di bidang kemampuan biologis, rasa percaya diri, keberfungsian sosial dan sempurna dengan melaksanakan perintah agama sesuai dengan keyakinannya.  AbstractGUIDANCE COUNSELING RELIGION WITH CULTURAL APPROACH (FORM THE RESILIENCE OF TEENAGERS). Teenagers is a phase of life that is interesting to examined, about changes: sions which quickly, inconvenience because the functions to change "one side is still considered small but the other side is considered to have great", the desire for "free" ties with the parents to joined in a peer group, taste curious about the commandments of religion. The condition causes many teenagers have a problem, so that their behavior strange and feel different with the environment. Yet the demands of culture, which cause adolescents are increasingly difficult to adapt with the environment. Therefore, with guidance counseling religion grow new awareness that conditions change on themselves adolescents it is normal and remains active with the spirit to optimize the power that power belongs to biological (, psychological, social, spiritual) to berpretasi forward the ideals of the family and the state. So helping teens to have a flexible attitude (resilience) to be able to adapt in a variety of cultural environments to become the next generation of quality with a variety of excellent achievement in the field of biological capabilities, confidence social keberfungsian and perfect with fulfilling the commands of religion in accordance with confidence. 
Sufistic Value in the Book of Ta’lim al Muta'alim Written by al Zarnuji
KONSELING RELIGI Vol 9, No 2 (2018): December 2018
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Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.21043/kr.v9i2.4630

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This research examines in depth al-Zarnuji's thoughts about education, especially those relating among teacher and student with a sufistic approach. The object of the study is the ta'lim al muta'alim book written by al Zarnuji. Besides that, the writings of the figures who criticized the book were also examined. The purpose of this study, to know comprehensively al Zarnuji's thinking about the relationship of teacher with student in the teaching and learning process, especially those relating to their respective rights and obligations combined harmoniously with the concepts of teachings Sufism. This research is a literature study or analysis of documents, with emphasis on the analysis or interpretation of written material based on the context. The results of this study indicate that al-Zarnuji has provided a solution on how to create education that is not only worldly oriented, but also oriented towards the end. For example, in one discussion, it is revealed that: "Among the causes of forgetting is immorality and many sins". This means that the concept of successful learning in al-Zarnuji's perspective is to rid himself of all acts of sin and immorality. The effort that must be made by a student is to do taubah.
MAKNA TAUBAT DALAM PROSES PENYEMBUHAN PENYAKIT JANTUNG KORONER PERSPEKTIF PSIKOTERAPIS MELALUI MEDIA SURAT AL FATIHAH
KONSELING RELIGI Vol 5, No 2 (2014): KONSELING RELIGI
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Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.21043/kr.v5i2.1051

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Tulisan ini dari hasil penelitian teks keagamaan berbasis pengkajian Islam yang dikaitkan dengan upaya medis untuk penyembuhan penyakit jantung koroner. Alasan melaporkan penelitian ini dalam bentuk tulisan artikel  ilmiah, karena bertujuan memudahkan tersebarnya secara lebih luas konstribusi bagaimana proses penyembuhan penyakit jantung koroner. Dengan demikian, tulisan ini diharapkan dapat membantu memberikan solusi ‘ikhtiyari’ bagi praktisi bidang kedokteran maupun subjek penderita penyakit jantung koroner. Temuan singkat dari penelitian  ini, ternyata psikoterapi Islam mampu menunjukkan solusi praktis-psikologis untuk penderita jantung koroner. Dalam perspektif psikoterapi Islam, pendekatan yang seharusnya dilakukan  bagi penderita penyakit jantung koroner, adalah dengan cara bertaubat dan kembali sepenuhnya kepada Allah swt.kata kunci: Psikoterapi, Taubat, Jantung Koroner. THE MEANING OF REPENTANCE IN THE PROCESS OF THE HEALING OF CORONARY HEART DISEASE PSIKOTERAPIS PERSPECTIVE  THROUGH THE  MEDIA OF  SURAH AL- FATIHAH. This article from the research result religious text based on the study of Islam that is associated  with the medical efforts to cure coronary heart  disease. The reason for this research reported in the writings of scientific articles, because it aims to facilitate the spread of the broader contribution how the healing  process coronary  heart disease. Thus, this article is expected to help provide solutions ‚ikhtiyari‘ to practitioners in the field of medicine as well as the subject of coronary heart disease patients. The findings of this study short, psychotherapy Islam is able to show the practical solution of psychological for patients with coronary heart disease. In the psychotherapy  perspective of Islam, the approach should be done for patients with coronary heart disease, is with how to repent and return fully to Allah SWT.Keywords: Psychotherapy, Ever-returning , Coronary Heart Disease
GESTALT PROFETIK (G-PRO) BEST PRACTICE PENDEKATAN BIMBINGAN DAN KONSELING SUFISTIK
KONSELING RELIGI Vol 8, No 1 (2017): KONSELING RELIGI
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Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.21043/kr.v8i1.2216

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Gestalt Profetik (G-Pro) lahir dari hasil evaluasi dan pengembangan  terhadap konsep dan praktik Terapi Gestalt Frederik S. Perls. Pendekatan bimbingan dan konseling G-Pro merupakan best practice pendekatan bimbingan dan konseling sufistik dengan  merekonstruksi konsep, praktik, dan media layanan bimbingan dan konseling sehingga sejalan dengan tujuan pendidikan Islam. Konsep G-Pro dikenal dengan istilah kesadaran penuh (full awareness), kontak penuh (full contact), dan dukungan penuh (full support). Praktik G-Pro menggunakan strategi bimbingan kelompok dan konseling  individual. Strategi bimbingan  kelompok dilakukan dalam bentuk small group  untuk memberikan layanan dasar pada semua konseli sebagai awal terapi dengan menggunakan pendekatan  permainan kartu SDBHSM. Permainan kartu SDBHSM adalah permainan  interaktif antara konselor dan konseli yang bertujuan mendorong konseli mengalami situasi dalam kontinum kesadaran yang melemah kemudian bergeser pada kesadaran penuh dengan prinsip di sini dan sekarang. Kartu SDBHSM merupakan media G-Pro yang berisi enam slogan, yaitu: (S) siapakah anda?; (D) dari mana anda berasal?; (B) berada di mana anda saat ini?; (H) hendak kemana tujuan anda?; (S) sedang apa anda saat ini?; dan (M) manfaat apa yang anda peroleh?. Strategi konseling individual dilakukan dengan permainan dialog internal meliputi berbagai permainan dialog internal yang diadaptasi dari Terapi Gestalt Frederik S. Perls yaitu permainan dialog internal (empty chair) untuk menghadapi urusan yang belum selesai; teknik “Saya  memikul tanggung jawab“; teknik ”saya memiliki suatu rahasia” dan  “Bolehkah saya memberimu sebuah kalimat”; teknik bermain proyeksi; teknik pembalikan; teknik pengulangan; teknik melebih-lebihkan; teknik “bisakah anda tetap dengan perasaan ini”. Melalui pendekatan G-Pro, konseli dapat dibantu dan dibangun  untuk mampu: meningkatkan kesadaran diri akan eksistensinya sebagai makhluk Allah; secara bertahap dapat mengambil hikmah dari pengalaman dan bersyukur/bersabar atas pengalaman yang telah dilalui; mengembangkan kemampuan secara mandiri untuk memenuhi kebutuhan tanpa harus melanggar syariat agama Islam dan atau melanggar  hak-hak orang lain; lebih sadar akan gerak hati, kecenderungan dan perasaannya; belajar bertanggung jawab pada apa yang mereka lakukan termasuk di dalamnya menerima konsekuensi dari pilihan dan perbuatannya; beralih dari dukungan dari luar meningkat menjadi didukung oleh diri sendiri dan dukungan Allah; menyadari membutuhkan orang lain dan dapat menerima pertolongan orang lain  dan mampu  menolong orang lain dengan berharap mendapat ridlaNya. AbstractGESTALT PROFETIK (G-PRO) BEST PRACTICE  GUIDANCE AND COUNCELLING SUFISTIK APPROACH Gestalt[LD1]  of Prophetic (G-Pro) was born from the results of the evaluation and development concept and practice of  Frederik S. Perls Gestalt Therapy . Approach G-Pro guidance and counseling  is a best practice of  approach sufistik guidance and counseling  by reconstruct concept, practice, and media of guidance and counseling so that it aligns with the objective of Islamic education. The concept of G-Pro is known as full awareness, full contact, and full support. G-Pro Practice uses the strategy of group guidance and individual counseling. Strategy of group guidance is in the form of a small group to provide basic service to all counselees as first therapy by using an approach SDBHSM card game. SDBHSM card game is interactive game between counselor and counselee that aims to encourage the counselee experiencing a situation in a continuum of consciousness that weakens then shifts in full awareness of the principle here and now. SDBHSM card is a G-Pro medium that contains six slogans, those are: (S) who are you ?;  (D) where are you from ?;  (B) where are you now ?;  (H) where do you want to go ?;  (S) what are  you doing now?; and (M) what benefit do you get ? Individual counseling strategy used by the internal dialogue game that consists many kinds of internal dialogue games adapted from Frederik S. Perls Gestalt Therapy is a game of internal dialogue (empty chair) to deal with unfinished business; technique "I take responsibility";  technique "I have a secret" and "Can I give you a sentence"; technique of playing projections; reversal technique; technique of repetition; exaggerating technique ; technique "Can you stay with this feeling". Through the G-Pro approach, counselee can be helped and built to be able to: increase the self-awareness of the existence as a creature of God; gradually able to take lessons from the experience and grateful / patient on the experience that has been passed; develop the ability independently to meet needs without violating Islamic law or violating the rights of others; more aware of the impulse, tendency and feeling; learn to be responsible in what they do which includes accepting the consequences of their choice and action; switch from external support to be supported by themselves and the support of God; aware of the need of others and can receive help others and able to help others expecting to get His pleasure.
KONSELING LINTAS BUDAYA PERSPEKTIF ABDURRAHMAN WAHID
KONSELING RELIGI Vol 7, No 1 (2016): KONSELING RELIGI
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Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.21043/kr.v7i1.1667

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AbstrakDalam penelitian ini, peneliti mengkaji model konseling lintas budaya KH Abdurrahman Wahid, (Gus Dur). Alasan meneliti pandangan Gus Dur, karena Gus Dur mampu menerapkan model konseling lintas budaya secara baik. Selain itu, Gus Dur mampu menjadikan teks kewahyuan relevan dengan model pendampingan keberagamaan. Tulisan ini memaparkan model konseling lintas budaya Gus Dur yang dapat dijadikan rujukan konseling Islam dan konseling lintas budaya. Penelitian ini dapat menjadi sumbangan berharga bagi perkembangan studi konseling kegamaan di tanah air.  Abstract CROSS-CULTURAL COUNSELLING PERSPECTIVE OF ABDURRAHMAN WAHID. In this research, researchers will examine the model of cross-cultural counselling KH Abdurrahman Wahid, then called Gus Dur. Examine the reasons Gus Dur, because he was able to apply the model of cross-cultural counselling. In addition, Gus Dur is able to make the text apocryphal works relevant to the mentoring model of religiosity. This article will describe the model of cross-cultural counselling Gus Dur which can be used as a reference source of Islamic counselling and counselling cross-cultural. This can be a valuable contribution to the development of counselling studies in some Islamic universities.
Peran Konseling dan Perencanaan Keuangan Islam dalam Membangun Keluarga Hayatan Thayyibah
KONSELING RELIGI Vol 9, No 1 (2018): June 2018
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Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.21043/kr.v9i1.3245

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Artikel ini bertujuan untuk menjelaskan peran konseling dan perencanaan keuangan Islam dalammembangun keluarga hayatan thayyibah. Masalah keuangan seringkali menjadi penyebab disharmoni dalam keluarga. Perhatian terhadap keuangan biasanya timbul ketika sesorang tidak sanggup mengatasi kebutuhan keuangannya atau status keuangannya sedang bermasalah. Konseling dan perencanaan keuangan merupakan proses untuk mengantisipasi terjadinya masalah keuangan melalui serangkaian proses perencanaan, pencapaian, dan pengkajian tujuan hidup dalam kerangka manajemen keuangan yang memadai. Tugas para konselor keuangan adalah untuk membantu para klien dalam menyelesaikan masalah keuangan melalui beberapa tahap seperti penilaian, pra-kontemplasi, kontemplasi, persiapan, tindakan, dan pemeliharaan. Dalam perspektif konseling dan perencanaan keuangan Islam, pendapatan harus dialokasikan untuk mencapai keseimbangan materialitas dan spiritualitas, kehidupan dunia dan akhirat. Pengeluaran kehidupan sosial dan keagamaan perlu dipenuhi untuk mencapai kehidupan yang baik (hayatan thayyibah)
KRITIK PSIKOLOGI SUFISTIK TERHADAP PSIKOLOGI MODERN: STUDI KOMPARATIF PEMIKIRAN AL-GHAZALI DAN DESCARTES (UPAYA MEMPERKUAT BANGUNAN KONSELING ISLAM)
KONSELING RELIGI Vol 4, No 1 (2013): KONSELING RELIGI
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Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.21043/kr.v4i1.1071

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Membahas tema yang didasarkan pada tujuan dalam upaya membuat psikologi sufi  sebagai bangunan integralistic  (ruh/ roh, qalb/hati,  aql/alasan, dan nafs/keinginan)  dalam kegiatan bimbingan dan konseling. Oleh itu, tema yang dapat digunakan untuk membuat menyeimbangkan dari kepribadian seseorang dalam perspektif  spiritual,  intelektual,  emosional,  dan  sikap. Selain itu, tema ini dapat diidentifikasi  pengembangan arus utama psikologi (aspek kognitif, Behavioristic,  Psychoanalysis, Humanistik), dan hubungan dengan bimbingan dan konseling. Kata Kunci: psikologi sufistik, cartesian  dualisme,  arus utama psikologi, potensi manusiaPSYCHOLOGY  SUFISTIK CRITICISM AGAINST MODERN PSYCHOLOGY:  COMPARATIVE STUDY  THOUGHT  AL- GHAZALI AND DESCARTES (EFFORTS TO STRENGTHEN THE BUILDING OF ISLAMIC COUNSELLING). Discussing the theme  is based on purpose in effort to make  sufi psychology as integralistic building (ruh/spirit, qalb/heart, aql/reason, and nafs/ desire) in activity of guidance and counseling. Thus, the theme can be used to create balancing of individual personality in perspective of spiritual, intellectual, emotional, and attitude. Moreover, this theme can be identified development of mainstream  of psychology (Cognitive, Behavioristic, Psychoanalysis, Humanistic),   and the relation  with guidance and counseling.Keywords:   psychology sufistik, cartesian dualisme, mainstream of psychology, human  potential
Implementation of Islamic Counseling Counseling in The Case of Violence Against Women in Households in Sambirejo Village, Gabus District, Pati District
KONSELING RELIGI Vol 12, No 2 (2021): Desember 2021
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Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.21043/kr.v12i2.8235

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his study ains to find out the cause of domestic violence and Islamic counselling service techniques from modin villages. This research uses field research with a qualitative approach. The primary sources are documentation and divorce data. Data collection techniques through interviews or interviews, observation and documentation. Furthermore, the data obtained were analyzed using the data reducation method and data display which summarizes the main things which are then described briefly in descriptive form. The results showed that violence against women (wives) that occurred in the family environment could not be separated from the existence of gender inequality which is one of domestic violence is the village modin. Islamic counselling guidance services for victims of domestic violence provided by the village modin caused a change in attitude from being quiet, aloof, embarrassed to neighbors and friends, with the provision of Islamic counselling guidance the victim became better and easier to sommunicate back to his neighbors and friends.
The Language Style of Prospective Counselors in Islamic Perspectives: Implications for Career Counseling
KONSELING RELIGI Vol 10, No 2 (2019): December 2019
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Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.21043/kr.v10i2.6594

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Cultural diversity, especially language style becomes a color in everyday social life, this is important considering the exchange of knowledge (transfer of knowledge) and values (transfer of values) of each individual depends on the verbal ability of humans in explaining everything that is experienced. The main issue that has become an obstacle in the world of Guidance and Counseling to this day is the demand for Counselor performance which must be improved but not accompanied by the ability to use language properly and correctly. The purpose of this study is to determine the language style of prospective counselors in the IKIP Siliwangi environment, West Java. An ethnographic study was chosen as a research model that aims to describe the language style of counselors in the Islamic perspective and their implications in career counseling. The data analysis technique used is thematic ethnography to thoroughly describe the language style of prospective counselors in an Islamic perspective that influences their application in the career counseling process. Based on the results of observes conducted, the authors found several findings including research subjects preferring the use of socially-formed language and applying it in daily life including in the learning process rather than considering it in an Islamic perspective such as (1) Tauqiify, (2) Ishtilah, (3) tauqiify and ishtilahy.
KONSELING AGAMA: TERAPI TERHADAP PENGIDAP PENYAKIT MANUSIA MODERN
KONSELING RELIGI Vol 5, No 1 (2014): KONSELING RELIGI
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Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.21043/kr.v5i1.1065

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Diantara fungsi syariah Islam adalah untuk melindungi agama, jiwa,  akal,  jasmani,  harta serta keturunan.  Semua perbuatan yang merendahkan prilaku manusia dimana perbuatan kurang baik akan berimbas pada kehancuran manusia dizaman modern, oleh karena itu ajaran islam sarat dengan tuntutan bagaimana memelihara  kesehatan jasmani dan  rohani,  kesehatan fisik maupun mental.  Ketidak berdayaan manusia bermain dalam pentas  peradaban modern  yang terus  melaju   tanpa  dapat dihentikan dan itu menyebabkan sebagian besar awal manusia modern terjerembab ke dalam situasi sulit yang menurut istilah Psikolog Humanis disebutkan sebagai manusia dalam kerangkeng kehidupan yang terkekang,  satu istilah  yang menggambarkan salah satu derita manusia modern (penyakit manusia modern). Adapun yang dimaksud dengan penyakit manusia modern saat ini adalah gangguan psikologis yang di derita oleh manusia yang hidup dalam lingkungan peradaban yang sebenarnya. Manusia modern seperti itu  sebenarnya adalah manusia yang sudah kehilangan makna, manusia kosong, baik kosong dari nilai-nilai agama maupun kekosongan dari nilai  kehidupannya.  Mereka resah setiap kali harus mengambil keputusan, mereka tidak tahu apa yang diinginkan, dan tidak mampu memilih jalan hidup yang diinginkan pula. Bila sudah terjangkit penyakit seperti ini, maka  peran terapi agama harus mampu untuk mengarahkan agar mereka tidak tambah larut dalam jurang kehancuran diperadaban modern saat ini.Kata Kunci: Konseling Agama, Gangguan  Psikologis, Manusia ModernCOUNSELING RELIGION: THERAPY AGAINST FOWL THE DISEASE  OF MODERN MAN.  Among  the  functions of Islamic law is to protect the religion of the soul, mind, physical wealth and their descendants. All acts that humble prioritising man where works less good will has spillover effects on the destruction of the man of modern dizaman, therefore the teachings of Islam is replete with the demands of how to maintain the health of the physical and spiritual health physically and mentally. The ineffectiveness of human  disability play in the scene of modern  civilisations that passes without  be stopped and that cause most of the beginning of modern man plummet into the difficult situation that according to the term Humanist Psychologist referred to as a man in life that terkekang kerangkeng , a term that describes one of modern man (suffer the disease of modern man).  Now what is meant by a disease of modern man is currently psychological disorders  in pain by the  people  who live  in the  environment  of civilisations that actually. modern man as it is in fact the man who have lost their meanings, man is empty, good empty from the values of religion and the void from the value of his life. They anxious each time must take decisions, they did not know what to expect and are not able to select the desired way of life. When  it is infected with a disease like this, then the role of religious therapy should be able to navigate so that they do not add dissolved in the edge of the modern diperadaban today.Keywords: Counseling   Religion,   Psychological Disorders, Modern Man