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The Decision to Postpone Marriage among the Sandwich Generation: A Maqashid Shari'ah Review Izzati, Nurul; Darmawan, Aldy
Jurnal AL-AHKAM Vol 15, No 1 (2024)
Publisher : UIN Imam Bonjol Padang

Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.15548/alahkam.v15i1.8750

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This study aims to analyze the Maqashid Shari'ah review of the decision to delay marriage in the sandwich generation, which is based on rational considerations such as concerns about financial responsibility and the potential to form the next sandwich generation while they are of marriageable age. The literature review method was used with thematic analysis helping to identify and interpret the findings. The conclusions of this study show that concerns about financial hardship and fairness towards spouses are the main factors driving the decision to postpone marriage for the sandwich generation. Marriage in Islam is not a decision that should be forced on everyone without consideration, but must be based on readiness and ability both in terms of economic and mental readiness. Postponing marriage because it has already become a sandwich generation in order to break the chain of sandwich generation is a wise action to ensure that when marriage occurs, the individual is better prepared and able to carry out the role in family life in accordance with Islamic law in accordance with maqashid sharia.
Legalization of Nikah Sirri: A Solution to Obtain Marital Status Recognition Among Diverse Cultural Groups in Indonesia Darmawan, Aldy; Sulfinadia, Hamda; Efrinaldi, Efrinaldi; Elfia, Elfia; Izzati, Nurul
Kawanua International Journal of Multicultural Studies Vol 4 No 2 (2023)
Publisher : State Islamic Institute of Manado (IAIN) Manado, Indonesia

Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.30984/kijms.v4i2.728

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This article examines the background behind couples from various ethnic groups in Indonesia opting for unregistered marriages and their efforts to obtain legal recognition of their marital status from the state. The research aims to understand the motivations of couples from different cultural backgrounds when deciding to marry in secrecy and how they then seek to legalize their unions through court decisions on marital status confirmation. The method used in this study is field research with a descriptive qualitative approach. Primary data was obtained through in-depth interviews with 14 interethnic couples such as Minang, Batak and Javanese in Padang City who filed petitions for marital status confirmation to the local Class 1A Religious Court. The findings reveal that preferences over unregistered marriages are influenced by the social, cultural and religious backgrounds of each ethnic group. This condition necessitates contextual adjustments in providing legal solutions to the issue of unregistered marriages so that they can be accepted by all parties from the existing cultural diversity. In conclusion, marital status confirmation in Religious Courts can be an effective legal solution for interethnic couples with unregistered marriages in Indonesia to obtain formal recognition of their marital status. However, a profound understanding of the prevailing socio-cultural values in each community is needed so that decisions on marital status confirmation do not contradict and can be well accepted by all parties.
Domestic Revolution: Aligning Career and Household with Gender Equality Principles Erandy, Riko; Izzati, Nurul; Darmawan, Aldy
Kawanua International Journal of Multicultural Studies Vol 5 No 1 (2024)
Publisher : State Islamic Institute of Manado (IAIN) Manado, Indonesia

Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.30984/kijms.v5i1.1004

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This study examines the roles of husbands and wives in achieving gender equality within dual-income families. Three family types are identified based on employment status: (1) employed husband and unemployed wife, (2) both spouses employed, and (3) employed wife and unemployed husband. Focusing on the second category, this research employs a gender-based approach to analyze the dynamics of dual-career households. The findings reveal five key strategies for realizing gender equality in dual-income families: (1) collaborative decision-making processes, (2) application of socialist principles to household income management, (3) implementation of Ta’awun (mutual assistance) in all aspects of domestic life, (4) development of emotional management skills, and (5) reframing household responsibilities as positive contributions rather than burdens. These complementary roles are proposed as effective measures to address various forms of gender inequality within the family unit, including marginalization (role exclusion), subordination (power imbalance), stereotyping (subjective labeling), violence, and the double burden phenomenon. This research contributes to the ongoing discourse on gender equality in domestic settings and offers practical strategies for couples navigating the complexities of balancing career and household responsibilities.
Pelatihan Mediator sebagai Strategi Penguatan Literasi Perkawinan bagi Penyuluh Agama Eva, Yusnita; Isnaini, Isnaini; Wahyu Ningsih Baeha, Fajriah; Ramadhani, Yunisa; Darmawan, Aldy; Izzati, Nurul
Al-Khidmah Jurnal Pengabdian Masyarakat Vol. 5 No. 2 (2025): MEI-AGUSTUS
Publisher : Institute for Research and Community Service (LPPM) of the Islamic University of Jember

Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.56013/jak.v5i2.4328

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Penyuluh Agama Islam (PAI) at the Kantor Urusan Agama (KUA) in Padang Pariaman Regency play a crucial role as the frontline in advocating for couples and resolving community conflicts. However, PAI has not yet functioned optimally, as reflected by the high divorce rate in this region, ranking second after Padang City in West Sumatra. Conflicting couples also tend to overlook the role of PAI and KUA as third parties that could help mediate their issues. To address this, the community service team sought to enhance PAI’s performance through ToT (Training of Trainers) mediator training, aimed at strengthening marital literacy and preserving marriages in the region. The approach used was group counseling with the Community-Based Rehabilitation (CBR) method. Data analysis applied Miles and Huberman’s techniques, including data reduction, data display, and conclusion drawing, alongside the Logical Framework Approach (LFA) for a more structured analysis. This training is beneficial in preparing PAI to become professional mediators, skilled in resolving household conflicts and reducing the tendency of couples to pursue litigation through the Pengadilan Agama (Religious Court).
Public Speaking dan Branding Diri: Kunci Santri dalam Membangun Ekonomi Mandiri Berbasis Pesantren Arum, Dewi Puspa; Abdillah, Muhammad Iqbal; Rafi, Maulana; Darmawan, Aldy
ALMUJTAMAE: Jurnal Pengabdian Masyarakat Vol. 5 No. 3 (2025): Desember
Publisher : Universitas Djuanda Bogor

Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.30997/almujtamae.v5i3.21197

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Kemampuan komunikasi dan pengembangan citra diri menjadi keterampilan penting dalam menghadapi tantangan ekonomi modern, khususnya bagi santri pesantren. Artikel ini membahas pelaksanaan pelatihan public speaking dan personal branding yang diselenggarakan oleh PKM Inovasi Pesantren UPN Veteran Jawa Timur di Pondok Pesantren Nurul Ulum Wirowongso Jember. Pelatihan ini bertujuan untuk membekali santri tingkat SMP dan SMA dengan keterampilan berbicara di depan umum serta strategi membangun identitas diri yang profesional dan positif. Metode pelaksanaan menggunakan pendekatan edukatif-partisipatif dengan kombinasi teori dan praktik langsung. Hasil evaluasi menunjukkan peningkatan signifikan  dalam  kepercayaan diri,  kemampuan komunikasi, dan  kesadaran  pentingnya personal branding sebagai modal sosial dan ekonomi. Pelatihan ini diharapkan dapat menjadi langkah strategis dalam menyiapkan generasi santri yang tidak hanya unggul secara spiritual, tetapi juga kompeten dan siap bersaing dalam dunia modern serta berkontribusi dalam pembangunan ekonomi pesantren.
Pentingnya Peranan Rangtuo Kaum Dalam Mediasi Perceraian di Nagari Damar Lapan Batang Inderapura Maulana, Gempa; Darmawan, Aldy; Elfia, Elfia; Zulfan, Zulfan
QIYAS: JURNAL HUKUM ISLAM DAN PERADILAN Vol 9, No 2 (2024)
Publisher : UIN Fatmawati Sukarno Bengkulu

Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.29300/qys.v9i2.5408

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Abstracts: This article discusses the role of Rangtuo Kaum in carrying out divorce mediation, the question in this paper is how the implementation of divorce mediation was carried out by Rangtuo Kaum in Nagari Damar Lapan Batang Inderapura. The research method used is field research by describing social phenomena to be appointed as objects of study in articles, then explaining them descriptively. Data was collected through in-depth interviews with Rangtuo Kaum who was involved in divorce mediation, as well as the parties involved in the mediation process. In conclusion, First, the title of Rangtuo Kaum in Nagari Damar Lapan Batang is a great and honorable title given by each tribe in Nagari. related to Divorce. Third, Mediation is a way of resolving disputes that can be used by disputing parties assisted by a mediator as an intermediary in order to resolve problems in a peaceful way. Then both parties to the dispute will be given the opportunity to discuss the problem and give their opinion. After reaching an agreement, Rangtuo Kaum will make a written agreement signed by both parties to the problem. The implementation of Divorce Mediation by Rangtuo Kaum in Nagari Damar Lapan Batang Inderapura prioritizes a fair process, involving both parties and finding the best solution to end the conflict.Keywords: Rangtuo Kaum, Medias,i Perceraian Abstrak : Artikel ini membahas tentang Peran Rangtuo Kaum dalam pelaksanaan mediasi perceraian, pertanyaan dalam tulisan ini adalah bagaimana kedudukan Rangtuo kaum pada mediasi perceraian di Nagari Damar lapan Batang inderapura dan bagaimana pelaksanaan mediasi perceraian yang dilakukan Rangtuo Kaum di Nagari Damar Lapan Batang Inderapura . metode penelitian yang digunakan adalah lapangan (field research) dengan memaparkan fenomena sosial untuk diangkat menjadi objek kajian dalam artikel, kemudian menjelaskannya secara deskriptif.  Data dikumpulkan melalui wawancara mendalam dengan Rangtuo Kaum yang terlibat dalam mediasi perceraian, serta pihak-pihak yang terlibat dalam proses mediasi tersebut. Kesimpulannya Pertama, Gelar Rangtuo Kaum di Nagari Damar Lapan Batang adalah sebuah gelar kebesaran dan terhormat yang diberikan oleh masing-masing suku di Nagari, Kedua, Rangtuo Kaum adalah penentu setiap keputusan yang menyangkut hajat orang banyak dalam masyarakat kaum di dalam suatu Nagari, termasuk berhubungan dengan Perceraian. Ketiga, Mediasi merupakan salah satu cara penyelesaian sengketa yang bisa di gunakan oleh pihak yang bersengketa dibantu oleh mediator sebagai penengah guna untuk menyelesaiakan masalah dengan jalan damai. Kemudian kedua belah pihak yang bersengketa akan diberikan kesempatan untuk membicarakan permasalahan dan memberikan pendapatnya. Setelah mencapai kesepakatan, Rangtuo Kaum akan membuat kesepakatan tertulis yang ditanda tangani oleh kedua belah pihak yang bermasalah. Pelaksanaan Mediasi Perceraian oleh Rangtuo Kaum di Nagari Damar Lapan Batang Inderapura mengutamakan proses yang adil, melibatkan kedua belah pihak dan mencari solusi terbaik untuk mengakhiri konflik.Kata kunci: Rangtuo Kaum, Mediasi, Perceraian
Tinjauan Maslahah Mursalah terhadap Denda Pembatalan Pertunangan di Kecamatan Pesisir Bukit Sungai Penuh Izati, Nurul; Darmawan, Aldy
QIYAS: JURNAL HUKUM ISLAM DAN PERADILAN Vol 9, No 2 (2024)
Publisher : UIN Fatmawati Sukarno Bengkulu

Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.29300/qys.v9i2.5410

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Abstracts: This paper discusses the review of Maslahah Mursalah on Fines for Cancellation of Engagement in the Sub-district of Pesisir Bukit Sungai Penuh. The research objectives in this paper are: (1) How is the practice of engagement cancellation fines in Pesisir Bukit Sungai Penuh? (2) How is the Maslahah Mursalah review of engagement cancellation fines in Pesisir Bukit Sungai Penuh? The research method used in this research is field research, namely collecting data through the field directly. The research location is on the Bukit Coast of Sungai Penuh. The informants in this study were local traditional leaders, and both parties who had canceled the engagement and then paid a fine at Pesisir Bukit Sungai Penuh. Data collection techniques were carried out by direct interviews with related parties and documentation. The results of the study are (1) The determination of fines on the cancellation of the engagement (tundum malau) is a way to make up for the shame of the party who was canceled or abandoned by his fiancée and as a form of compliance with local customs. (2) From the perspective of maslahah mursalah, the cancellation of engagement can damage the honor and brotherhood of Muslims even though there is no prohibition, while the fine is considered as maslahah muursalah for the injured party with certain conditions.Keywords: Cancellation of engagement, maslahah mursalah, and Sungai Penuh Abstrak: Tulisan ini membahas tinjauan Maslahah Mursalah terhadap Denda Pembatalan Pertunangan Kecamatan Pesisir Bukit Sungai Penuh. Tujuan penelitian tulisan ini yaitu: (1) Bagaimana praktik denda pembatalan pertunangan di Pesisir Bukit Sungai Penuh? (2) Bagaimana tinjauan maslahah mursalah terhadap denda pembatalan pertunangan di Pesisir Bukit Sungai Penuh?. Adapun metode penelitian yang digunakan dalam penelitian ini yaitu penelitian lapangan (field research) yaitu pengeumpulan data melalui lapangan langsung. Lokasi penelitian di Pesisir Bukit Sungai Penuh. Informan pada penelitian ini adalah Tokoh Adat setempat, dan kedua belah pihak yang pernah membatalkan pertunangan  lalu membayar denda di Pesisir Bukit Sungai Penuh. Teknik pengumpulan data dilakukan dengan wawancara langsung terhadap pihak terkait dan dokumentasi. Hasil dari penelitian adalah (1) Penetapan denda pada pembatalan pertunangan (tundum malau) adalah cara agar penebusan malu terhadap pihak yang dibatalkan atau ditinggalkan oleh tunangannya dan sebagai bentuk kepatuhan terhadap adat setempat. (2) Perspektif maslahah mursalah, pembatalan pertunangan dapat merusak kehormatan dan persaudaraan umat Muslim meskipun tidak ada pelarangan, sementara hukuman denda dianggap sebagai maslahah muursalah bagi pihak yang dirugikan dengan syarat tertentu.Kata kunci: Pembatalan Pertunangan, maslahah mursalah, dan Sungai penuh