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The Power of Husband-Wife Communication in Building Family Resilience and Preventing Divorce: A Study of Maṣlaḥah Mursalah Teguh Mulyo, Mufrod; Nasution, Khoiruddin; Batubara, Samin; Musawwamah, Siti; Abdullah, Raihanah
Al-Manahij: Jurnal Kajian Hukum Islam Vol. 17 No. 2 (2023)
Publisher : Sharia Faculty of State Islamic University of Prof. K.H. Saifuddin Zuhri, Purwokerto

Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.24090/mnh.v17i2.7651

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This paper is prepared based on the research on 18 couples of husbands and wives from a faculty at a state Islamic university in Yogyakarta. The research found that good communication between husbands and wives in household life could build family resilience and prevent divorce. This study used normative-sociology approach combined with the maṣlaḥah mursalah and convergence theories, which was further combined with the Ibnu Miskawaih and K. Hajar Dewantoro’s theories. The data was collected by distributing questionnaires to 18 couples of husbands and wives. The study found that a good communication between wives and husbands could be built through verbal and non-verbal communications. These verbal and non-verbal communications had the same strength in building a good communication, depending on the situations. There were times when it was more appropriate to use verbal communication, while there were also times when non-verbal communication was the right choice. It could, therefore, be said that communication played a crucial role in building family resilience. Thus, analyzed using the maṣlaḥah mursalah theory, it was not an exaggeration to state that building communication is a necessity for husbands and wives. It is not even exaggerating to say that building a good communication is an obligation that husbands and wives cannot ignore.  
Pola Asuh Orang Tua Dimasa Pandemi Covid-19 Terhadap Kemandirian Siswi Dalam Belajar Pada Siswi Kelas VII SMP IT Nurul Ilmi Kota Jambi Ramdani, Iis; Batubara, Samin; Batubara, Ariandi; Afriansyah, Afriansyah
JIGC (Journal of Islamic Guidance and Counseling) Vol. 7 No. 1 (2023): JIGC (Journal of Islamic Guidance and Counseling)
Publisher : UIN Sulthan Thaha Saifuddin Jambi

Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.30631/jigc.v7i1.71

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Penelitian ini dilatar belakangi oleh pola asuh orang tua dimana pada masa pandemic covid-19 yang melanda seluruh dunia dan sangat mempengaruhi dunia baik dalam beraktivitas maupun pendidikan pada umumnya terganggu, salah satunya adalah focus anak terganggu serta kemandirian dalam mengerjakan tugas melalui daring/ online yang harus dilaksanakannya pada masa covid-19. Dan ada 3 permasalahan yang dihadai siswi yang bersekolah di SMP IT NURUL ILMI Kota Jambi di masa pandemic covid-19 seperti sekarang yaitu menyangkut lingkungan dan sosio-emosional anak.. permasalahan tersebut menjadi kendala sendiri dalam proses belajar anak dirumah, yang mana biasanya anak melakukan kegiatan belajar disekolah namun karena adanya covid-19 yang melanda sehingga membuat anak belajar dirumah. Penelitian ini menggunakan metode atau pendekatan kualitatif, yang berlokasi di SMP IT NURUL ILMI kota jambi. Metode yang digunakan dalam pngumpulan data adalah wawancara, dokumentasi. Dan hasil dari siswi dan orang tua yang mengsekolahkan anaknya di SMP IT Nurul Ilmi kota jambi ini mampu mengerjakan tugas secara mandiri dirumah pada masa covid-19 dikarenakan memiliki fasilitas serta sarana mandiri dirumah pada masa covid-19 dikarenakan memiliki fasilitas serta sarana yang nyaman untuk belajar, dan orang tua bias membantu serta memeriksa anak ketika belajar sehingga belajar pun efekti dan berjalan dengan lancar.
Pelarangan Perkawinan Satu Marga Dalam Adat Batak Mandailing Batubara, Samin
Al-Risalah Vol 18 No 1 (2018): June 2018
Publisher : Fakultas Syariah UIN Sulthan Thaha Saifuddin Jambi, Indonesia

Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | Full PDF (681.881 KB) | DOI: 10.30631/alrisalah.v18i1.37

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Tulisan ini bertujuan untuk mendiskusikan pelarangan perkawinan semarga dalam adat Batak Mandailing yang difokuskan di Desa Muara Penyenggerahan, Kecamatan Rao, Provinsi Sumatera Barat. Ia juga bertujuan untuk menguji hipotesa yang menyatakan pelarangan perkawinan semarga dalam adat Batak Mandailing telah mengalami pergeseran nilai di tengah masyarakat. Metodologi yang digunakan dalam tulisan ini adalah metode fenomenologis. Artikel ini menyimpulkan bahwa pelarangan perkawinan semarga dalam perspektif adat Batak Mandailing di Desa Muara Penyenggerahan masih eksis. Namun dalam prakteknya sekarang, aturan adat ini mengalami pergeseran, karena alasan-alasan internal dan eksternal dari pasangan yang menikah semarga tersebut. Selanjutnya, ditinjau dari perspektif hukum Islam, pelarangan perkawinan semacam ini tidak sesuai dengan hukum Islam.
Marriage Preparation Courses in Indonesia: Comparative Study of Muslims and Christians Batubara, Samin; Nasution, Khoiruddin; Nelli, Jumni; Nasution, Syamruddin; Sobhan , Sobhan; Kholidah, Kholidah
Al-Risalah Vol 22 No 1 (2022): June 2022
Publisher : Fakultas Syariah UIN Sulthan Thaha Saifuddin Jambi, Indonesia

Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | Full PDF (403.088 KB) | DOI: 10.30631/alrisalah.v22i1.1231

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This paper aims to prove that after attending the Marriage Preparation Course, the prospective wives and husbands of the course participants feel the extraordinary benefits of attending the Marriage Preparation Course. Because the material presented is very relevant and vital as a provision in living household life. This paper reports the research results on implementing Marriage Preparation Courses among Muslims in Pekanbaru, Riau and Christians in Yogyakarta. These two objects result from selecting the best performance in carrying out the Marriage Preparation Course. This research includes qualitative research with a juridical approach and uses the theory of the legal system. The result of the study is that the implementation of a good Marriage Preparation Course can give a positive impression and knowledge to the course participants. The participants stated the importance of prospective wives and husbands taking Marriage Preparation Courses. This course assists candidates in dealing with the romance of domestic life in the future, especially if the material also provides testimonials of the couples. One problem to solve by working couples is not being able to get permission from the workplace to take courses. Hopefully, there will be a policy from the government that requires workplaces to permit workers to take courses in the future.
Pelarangan Perkawinan Satu Marga Dalam Adat Batak Mandailing Batubara, Samin
Al-Risalah Vol 18 No 1 (2018): June 2018
Publisher : Fakultas Syariah UIN Sulthan Thaha Saifuddin Jambi, Indonesia

Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.30631/alrisalah.v18i1.37

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Tulisan ini bertujuan untuk mendiskusikan pelarangan perkawinan semarga dalam adat Batak Mandailing yang difokuskan di Desa Muara Penyenggerahan, Kecamatan Rao, Provinsi Sumatera Barat. Ia juga bertujuan untuk menguji hipotesa yang menyatakan pelarangan perkawinan semarga dalam adat Batak Mandailing telah mengalami pergeseran nilai di tengah masyarakat. Metodologi yang digunakan dalam tulisan ini adalah metode fenomenologis. Artikel ini menyimpulkan bahwa pelarangan perkawinan semarga dalam perspektif adat Batak Mandailing di Desa Muara Penyenggerahan masih eksis. Namun dalam prakteknya sekarang, aturan adat ini mengalami pergeseran, karena alasan-alasan internal dan eksternal dari pasangan yang menikah semarga tersebut. Selanjutnya, ditinjau dari perspektif hukum Islam, pelarangan perkawinan semacam ini tidak sesuai dengan hukum Islam.
Marriage Preparation Courses in Indonesia: Comparative Study of Muslims and Christians Batubara, Samin; Nasution, Khoiruddin; Nelli, Jumni; Nasution, Syamruddin; Sobhan , Sobhan; Kholidah, Kholidah
Al-Risalah Vol 22 No 1 (2022): June 2022
Publisher : Fakultas Syariah UIN Sulthan Thaha Saifuddin Jambi, Indonesia

Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.30631/alrisalah.v22i1.1231

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This paper aims to prove that after attending the Marriage Preparation Course, the prospective wives and husbands of the course participants feel the extraordinary benefits of attending the Marriage Preparation Course. Because the material presented is very relevant and vital as a provision in living household life. This paper reports the research results on implementing Marriage Preparation Courses among Muslims in Pekanbaru, Riau and Christians in Yogyakarta. These two objects result from selecting the best performance in carrying out the Marriage Preparation Course. This research includes qualitative research with a juridical approach and uses the theory of the legal system. The result of the study is that the implementation of a good Marriage Preparation Course can give a positive impression and knowledge to the course participants. The participants stated the importance of prospective wives and husbands taking Marriage Preparation Courses. This course assists candidates in dealing with the romance of domestic life in the future, especially if the material also provides testimonials of the couples. One problem to solve by working couples is not being able to get permission from the workplace to take courses. Hopefully, there will be a policy from the government that requires workplaces to permit workers to take courses in the future.