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POIMEN Jurnal Pastoral Konseling
ISSN : 27235645     EISSN : 27235637     DOI : -
POIMEN Jurnal Pastoral Konseling (PJPK), adalah Jurnal Ilmiah dari Prodi Pastoral Konseling diambil dari istilah Yunani berarti “gembala” yang menjadi esensi dari output Pastoral Konseling sehingga mendapatkan outcome sebagai peneliti dalam kajian Teologi Pastoral Konseling yang berkualitas, kritis, inovatif, empati dan ilmiah serta tetap bersumber pada Yesus Kristus sebagai Gembala yang Baik dan sumber hikmat, POIMEN Jurnal Pastoral Konseling (PJPK) menerima artikel yang berkonsentrasi penelitian dibidang : Teologi Pastoral Konseling Studi Konseling Kristen Artikel yang dikirimkan adalah artikel yang belum pernah atau tidak sedang dalam proses publikasi dalam jurnal yang lain. Semua artikel yang terkirim wajib mengikuti petunjuk penulisan atau gaya selingkung yang telah ditetapkan. Karena itu semua artikel yang dikirim ke Jurnal POIMEN Jurnal Pastoral Konseling (PJPK) akan melewati tahapan review dengan menggunakan blind review, yang berfokus pada kebaruan hasil penelitian Teologi Pastoral Konseling.
Arjuna Subject : Umum - Umum
Articles 72 Documents
“KONSELING PASTORAL MASALAH KELUARGA”: Analisis Pola Asuh Terhadap Anak Pendeta yang Berusia Remaja Subaeda Luma; Randy A. A. P. Lombogia; Billy Kaseger
POIMEN Jurnal Pastoral Konseling Vol. 3 No. 2 (2022): Desember: POIMEN Jurnal Pastoral Konseling
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The correct parenting style can educate and teach children to grow into successful individuals according to what is expected, therefore the role of parents in educating and understanding children's problems is very important. The purpose of this research is, how parents as servants of God (pastors) can understand childcare patterns, and can understand the problems of teenagers, and also know how to deal with any negative behavior or when the child makes a mistake. The researchers used descriptive qualitative research and collected data through observation and interviews with 3 boys aged 17 years who had parents as servants of God (pastors) in Manado, researchers also conducted a literature study on parenting styles. Researchers use the theory of Edwin Charis to analyze and present ideas of thought in parenting. From this research found, two concepts of thought. The First, How can parents understand every problem of teenagers. The Second, how to deal with children's negative behavior and educate their personality to match expectations, as well as ways to cultivate obedience to children, and how to discipline children, and the right way to give attention with ears that can always listen.
PERAN KONSELING PASTORAL BAGI IBU YANG MENGALAMI POSTPARTUM DEPRESSION DI BAWAH USIA DUA PULUH TAHUN Hesky Charles Opit; Pratiwi Anggrani Makansing
POIMEN Jurnal Pastoral Konseling Vol. 3 No. 2 (2022): Desember: POIMEN Jurnal Pastoral Konseling
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Postpartum depression or postpartum depression is experienced by mothers who get more pressure in their lives after giving birth. A mother who is not ready mentally, physically, economically and spiritually is very vulnerable to experiencing postpartum depression. The method used in this study is descriptive qualitative which seeks to describe a social phenomenon, where the data collected is first explained, then analyzed and formulated. This study aims to show the role of pastoral counseling for mothers who experience depression, specifically for adolescents aged less than 20 years. A woman who will give birth should be aged 20 years and over in order to reduce the depressions that appear and other disorders.
HELICOPTER PARENTING: Studi Kasus Konseling Pastoral Dalam Menangani Pola Asuh Helikopter Elsye Esterina Londo; Ryanto Fadly Sumendap
POIMEN Jurnal Pastoral Konseling Vol. 3 No. 2 (2022): Desember: POIMEN Jurnal Pastoral Konseling
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The family is a place where each family member grows and flourishes, a family might be likened to a house that must correlate between every aspect of the element in it. Relationships not only talk about relationships but also talk about correlation that must have a connection between each other. Family circumstances should also emphasize an awareness of the essence of each member of the family, one that must be marked by definite and precise limits on application. A single upbringing is something that has to be associated with essence and boundaries that can set a specific goal. It is essentially the goal of taking control of and fulfilling the duties of each individual inside, that love always hates the basis of the application of foster care, but understanding of excessive affection can lead to parents in providing deviant foster care such as helicopter parenting. In the study researchers would like to try to explore more deeply the matter of the care of the helicopter's helicopter pattern is supported by qualitative and cemented research approaches with a pastoral case-counseling approach. This heatophic fabrication if it is left to disrupt the stability of the family and impact on mental issues that can last personally acceptable.
PERAN GEMBALA SIDANG TERHADAP KEPEMIMPINAN DAN PERTUMBUHAN GEREJA DALAM PERSPEKTIF KONSELING PASTORAL Limeani Zalukhu; Leniani Zalukhu
POIMEN Jurnal Pastoral Konseling Vol. 3 No. 2 (2022): Desember: POIMEN Jurnal Pastoral Konseling
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The pastor has a very important influence on his church. The leadership of a pastor in a church will affect the growth that occurs in the church. A healthy church is a growing church. However, pastors sometimes neglect to provide guidance so that the church does not grow. If there is no action, an appropriate method of counseling is applied in the church, it will cause a more complicated problem. The purpose of this study is to reveal the role of the pastor on leadership and growth in the church. The problems in this study are as follows: What is the role of the pastor on church leadership and growth in the perspective of pastoral counseling?. The method used in this research is descriptive qualitative. The results used in this study indicate a form of pastoral counseling method given by the pastor to congregation members as leaders and to increase church growth. The existence of pastoral counseling can help the pastor's role in leadership in the church and display a superior character, trustworthy attitude and role model in growing the church.
MUATAN PENDAMPINGAN PASTORAL DALAM BUDAYA MAPALUS:BERANTANG DAN SUMAKEY BAGI KELUARGA BERDUKA DI MINAHASA, KAWANGKOAN Yohan Brek; Christina C Taroreh
POIMEN Jurnal Pastoral Konseling Vol. 4 No. 1 (2023): Juni: POIMEN Jurnal Pastoral Konseling
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Culture becomes a distinctive color in society. People appreciate every culture that is present as a form of sustaining existing social life. The culture that has existed because of the spirit of the ancestors continues to revive social values that aim to strengthen. Pastoral assistance is present and becomes a content in the mapalus culture: berantang and sumakey as a form of love and concern for others. This existential pastoral care gives color that culture can reveal the purpose and function of pastoral care to show that humans are creatures who live together. In the end, this research, which is based on various literature reviews but also obtained from observations and data sources, is expected to be a contribution but also a supportive spirit so that the culture of berantang and sumakey is maintained and preserved without ignoring the values contained.
MEMAHAMI POTENSI POSITIVE SELF-TALK SEBAGAI ALAT DALAM KONSELING PASTORAL: ANALISIS STUDI KUALITATIF David Eko Setiawan
POIMEN Jurnal Pastoral Konseling Vol. 4 No. 1 (2023): Juni: POIMEN Jurnal Pastoral Konseling
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The technique of positive positive self-talk is often used as one of the methods in counseling to help clients overcome their emotional and spiritual problems. This research aims to evaluate the effectiveness of positive self-talk technique as a tool in pastoral counseling using the library research method and data analysis through content analysis. This study involves an analysis of the literature related to positive self-talk technique and pastoral counseling and conducting content analysis of the collected data to evaluate the effectiveness of positive positive self-talk technique as a tool in pastoral counseling. The results of the research show that positive positive self-talk technique is effective in helping clients overcome their emotional and spiritual problems and has great potential as a tool in pastoral counseling. The implication of these findings is that positive positive self-talk technique can be effectively used by pastoral counselors to help their clients overcome their problems and achieve a better self-understanding.
IMPLEMENTASI PENDEKATAN PENDAMPINGAN PRAPERNIKAHAN DALAM PROSES MANGANTAR : STUDI KASUS PADA MASYARKAT SUKU LAUJE Novanda Yuliana Allow; Natalia Olivia Kusuma Dewi Lahamendu
POIMEN Jurnal Pastoral Konseling Vol. 4 No. 1 (2023): Juni: POIMEN Jurnal Pastoral Konseling
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This study aims to examine the origins and meaning of Mangantar from the perspective of multicultural counseling and pastoral culture, examine the implementation of the Mangantar process from the perspective of pastoral and premarital counseling and develop the concept and practice of Mangantar into culturally based media and premarital counseling for the Lauje people. In this research method that will be used is descriptive analytical research, with data collection techniques in the form of interviews and observations. In the interview technique, the author's key informants were the Head of the Lauje Tribe and the Traditional Head, while the supporting informants were people who had carried out the Mangantar tradition. The theory used in this research is multicultural counseling, cultural pastoral and premarital counseling. From the results of the study, it was found that the philosophical foundation and spiritual values ​​of Mangantar, namely sacrifice, responsibility, cooperation, commitment and definition of family, which in the next process will be used as premarital counseling assistance.
SUATU KAJIAN DESKRIPTIF BIMBINGAN KONSELING TERHADAP PERILAKU KECANDUAN MENONTON VIDEO PORNO DAN SEKS BEBAS PADA REMAJA MASA KINI (SEX BEFOREMARRIAGE) Frieska Putrima Tadung; Diana Sari Yosepin Lakumani; Geysya Flinjili Rotikan
POIMEN Jurnal Pastoral Konseling Vol. 4 No. 1 (2023): Juni: POIMEN Jurnal Pastoral Konseling
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One of the reasons for doing this research is that adolescence is a period of transition from childhood to adulthood. During growth and development, adolescents experience changes that require them to adapt. However, it cannot be denied that many young people at this developmental stage are unable to adapt, causing problems that affect their development in life, such as the current prevalence of addictive behaviors such as pornography viewing and free sex. Maladjustment is caused by several factors, including youth quality, family quality, lack of quality information, and environmental quality. Researchers believe that suggestions are needed to help young people solve this problem. This study uses a qualitative descriptive research methodology. The research target is high school teenager.
CHARACTER BUILDING SEBAGAI MODEL KONSELING PASTORAL BAGI KAUM MUDA YANG MENGALAMI GAYA HIDUP SHOPAHOLIC Jeni Palette; Yudha Nugraha Manguju
POIMEN Jurnal Pastoral Konseling Vol. 4 No. 1 (2023): Juni: POIMEN Jurnal Pastoral Konseling
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Consumptive culture has become an inseparable part of the lifestyle of young people. The shopaholic phenomenon is very important to know the causes and how to overcome it, especially in the frame of pastoral counseling so that church residents can understand and understand shopaholic problems. This study uses qualitative methods by observing and conducting interviews with the aim of obtaining information about factors, impacts, and techniques that can be used in conducting pastoral counseling for young people who experience a shopaholic lifestyle in order to recover and minimize a distorted lifestyle by excessive shopping addiction. Shopaholic behavior is very detrimental to young people from various aspects such as psychic, financial, moral, spiritual, and social. This deviant behavior is caused by a disorder in individuals, namely compulsive obsessions characterized by repetitive thoughts that cause them to want constantly to immediately fulfill their shopping desires. The character-building technique can be practiced by building emotional closeness and building a model of spirituality as a model of Christian character.
STRATEGI PASTORAL KONSELING UNTUK MENGATASI TRADISI BIBLIOLATRI Hesky Charles Opit; Viona Belinda Sagheghe
POIMEN Jurnal Pastoral Konseling Vol. 4 No. 1 (2023): Juni: POIMEN Jurnal Pastoral Konseling
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Bibliolatry tradition refers to the tendency of excessive worship or reverence towards the Bible in specific religious or belief contexts. This tradition can have negative impacts such as religious fanaticism, intolerance, and a lack of balanced understanding of spiritual values. To address the issue of bibliolatry tradition, an effective pastoral counseling strategy is needed. This research aims to explore pastoral counseling strategies that can assist individuals in overcoming bibliolatry tradition. The strategies involve an existential approach emphasizing the search for meaning, personal autonomy and responsibility, openness to freedom and possibilities, as well as presence and empathy. Through the existential approach, individuals can develop a broader understanding and balance in interpreting the Bible and religious traditions. Pastoral counseling strategies will also help individuals understand that the Bible is not an object of rigid and absolute worship but a divine revelation that requires contextual understanding and guidance from the Holy Spirit. Pastoral experts in this strategy will provide the necessary emotional and spiritual support to address issues related to bibliolatry. They will also assist individuals in developing a closer relationship with God and understanding the importance of maintaining a balanced approach to the worship of the Bible. By implementing effective pastoral counseling strategies, individuals can overcome the negative impacts of bibliolatry tradition and develop a balanced understanding of the Bible, healthy spiritual growth, and a meaningful pursuit of life's meaning. This strategy will promote a broader contextual understanding, fulfillment of individual needs, as well as freedom and spiritual growth.