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REMAINING HARMONY AMIDST DEBT TRAPS: PROBLEMS AND STRATEGIES FOR FAMILIES IN MAINTAINING MARRIAGE HARMONY IN THE BANYUMULEK VILLAGERS Helwinda; Sainun; Muhammad Fikri
Familia: Jurnal Hukum Keluarga Vol. 6 No. 2 (2025)
Publisher : Program Studi Hukum Keluarga Fakultas Syariah UIN Datokarama Palu

Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.24239/familia.v6i2.319

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This research explores the challenges of intrafamily debt and strategies for building sakinah families among pottery artisan households in Banyumulek Village, West Lombok. As a traditional craft industry center, this community exhibits unique socio-economic characteristics with fluctuating income patterns dependent on tourism seasons, creating distinctive financial vulnerabilities. Using qualitative descriptive methodology conducted from July to September 2023, this study involved five families with significant debt problems (ranging from 50 to 70 million rupiah) who successfully maintained family sakinah. The research integrates Islamic law perspectives and marriage law frameworks in analyzing intrafamily debt issues. The results show that families implement various strategies including: building mutual trust and support, setting clear debt repayment targets, developing positive beliefs about debt resolution, maintaining open communication through deliberation, and strengthening spiritual dimensions. Concrete efforts include opening additional businesses, taking side jobs, allocating income specifically for debt repayment, and implementing strict financial management. The challenges faced include internal conflicts over debt allocation, economic pressures from income fluctuations, and social pressures from community stigmatization. Solutions implemented reflect emotional and spiritual maturity, including commitment to non-violence during conflicts, adaptive financial management strategies, spiritual reinforcement through worship, and mental resilience against negative perceptions. This study contributes empirically by demonstrating that sakinah families maintain harmony not through the absence of financial problems but through adaptive coping mechanisms that integrate Islamic values with practical economic strategies. The study concludes that a sakinah family is identified by the ability to manage challenges while maintaining sakinah, with success correlated with the category of sakinah family according to the Ministry of Religious Affairs classification.
THE IMPLICATION OF THE TEACHING OF THORIKOH QODIRIYAH WA NAQSABANDIYYA DARUL FALAH MATARAM ON FAMILY HARMONY Abdul Malik; Sainun; Muhasim
Familia: Jurnal Hukum Keluarga Vol. 6 No. 2 (2025)
Publisher : Program Studi Hukum Keluarga Fakultas Syariah UIN Datokarama Palu

Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.24239/familia.v6i2.415

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This study concerns the teachings of Thoriqoh Qodiriyah wa Naqsabandiyah (TQN) Darul Falah Mataram and their implications for marital harmony among followers. Indonesia's divorce rate reached 466,000 cases in 2023 (BPS, 2023), indicating the need for alternative approaches to strengthen family institutions. This qualitative case study was conducted in Pagutan Village, Mataram City, NTB, employing triangulation through in-depth interviews with Mursyid, Khalifah, and 15 followers (selected purposively based on marriage duration >5 years and active participation >3 years), participant observation, and documentation. Data analysis utilized descriptive techniques following Miles and Huberman's model. Results show TQN's three pillars dhikr, muraqaba, and Tafakkur practiced through structured activities significantly improve marital harmony through: (1) enhanced interpersonal communication quality (openness, empathy); (2) moral character development (patience, compassion); and (3) strengthened family solidarity. Duck's Interpersonal Communication Theory and Pargament's Spiritual Theory validate these findings. The tariqa community functions as emotional support, spiritual identity formation, and constructive conflict resolution, contributing to harmonious households based on Mawaddah wa Rahmah principles (QS Ar-Rum:21). This research fills the literature gap on tariqa's role in family harmony and offers practical insights for spiritual-based household guidance strategies aligned with Islamic Family Law principles.