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The Influence of Fatherless on Marriage Motivation Girls in Situbondo District Laili Janatul Firdaus; Ruston Kumaini
Jurnal AL-MAQASID: Jurnal Ilmu Kesyariahan dan Keperdataan Vol 11, No 2 (2025)
Publisher : UIN Syekh Ali Hasan Ahmad Addary Padangsidimpuan

Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.24952/almaqasid.v11i2.16938

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AbstractThe phenomenon of fatherlessness is a significant social issue in Indonesia, with 20.9% of children growing up without the presence of a father. This study aims to explore the factors contributing to the fatherless phenomenon and investigate its impact on the marriage aspirations of girls in the Situbondo District. The research adopts a qualitative approach with a case study design. The findings reveal four main factors causing fatherlessness: lack of support during the developmental years, parental divorce, paternal neglect, and emotional absence. These factors contribute to low self-confidence and uncertainty in forming relationships. Some informants expressed a positive desire to marry, although past trauma made them more selective in choosing a partner. Others, however, felt doubtful or skeptical about marriage due to past experiences. It can be concluded that the fatherless experience has diverse influences on the motivations and desires for marriage among girls. These differences include coping strategies for trauma and varying criteria for choosing a partner. However, a common thread among them is the awareness of the importance of a responsible male figure and the need for emotional security and stability. This study emphasizes that father involvement is crucial in the psychological development and relational dynamics of girls and provides important insights for parents and policymakers to design more effective interventions to support children in similar situations. Furthermore, it highlights the need for greater attention to the fatherless issue within communities, particularly in Situbondo District.
Negotiated Obedience of Generation Z in Life Partner Selection: A Phenomenological Study in Islamic Family Law Firstyadi, Sherly Oktavia; Kumaini, Ruston; Azzam, Muhammad
El-Hadhanah : Indonesian Journal Of Family Law And Islamic Law Vol. 6 No. 1 (2026): El-Hadhanah: Indonesian Journal of Family Law and Islamic Law
Publisher : Prodi Hukum Keluarga Fakultas Syariah dan Hukum UIN Ar-Raniry

Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.22373/hadhanah.v6i1.10254

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This study provides an in-depth examination of the sociological and religious dynamics that emerge between individual autonomy and parental blessing in the process of choosing a life partner, particularly among Muslim Generation Z women. In the modern era, Generation Z is characterized by a strong appreciation for freedom, critical thinking, and personal autonomy, traits that frequently intersect with collective values and family traditions. Therefore, this study aims to comprehensively review these dynamics through the lens and perspective of Islamic law. To analyze this phenomenon, the study employs a qualitative approach using a phenomenological method, focusing specifically on how informants interpret their subjective life experiences. Data was collected through in-depth interviews with individuals who demographically fall into the Generation Z category. The findings indicate that autonomy is understood as a form of personal responsibility in shaping one's future, while parental blessing is essentially interpreted as a manifestation of prayer, a source of spiritual blessing, and a concrete implementation of the value of birrul walidain (devotion to parents) in religious practice. Despite differences in experiences and perspectives among the informants, they generally strive to strike a balance between personal desires and respect for their parents. From the perspective of Islamic law, an individual's right to choose a partner is recognized, provided it does not contradict sharia principles and proper conduct (adab) toward parents. The study concludes that a middle ground between individual autonomy and parental blessing can be achieved through open communication, mutual understanding, and spiritual approaches such as general supplication (do'a) and the prayer for guidance (shalat istikharah). These findings contribute to a better understanding of the relational dynamics between parents and children in the modern era, specifically within the context of Muslim Generation Z women.
The Influence of Fatherless on Marriage Motivation Girls in Situbondo District Laili Janatul Firdaus; Ruston Kumaini
Jurnal AL-MAQASID: Jurnal Ilmu Kesyariahan dan Keperdataan Vol 11, No 2 (2025)
Publisher : UIN Syekh Ali Hasan Ahmad Addary Padangsidimpuan

Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.24952/almaqasid.v11i2.16938

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AbstractThe phenomenon of fatherlessness is a significant social issue in Indonesia, with 20.9% of children growing up without the presence of a father. This study aims to explore the factors contributing to the fatherless phenomenon and investigate its impact on the marriage aspirations of girls in the Situbondo District. The research adopts a qualitative approach with a case study design. The findings reveal four main factors causing fatherlessness: lack of support during the developmental years, parental divorce, paternal neglect, and emotional absence. These factors contribute to low self-confidence and uncertainty in forming relationships. Some informants expressed a positive desire to marry, although past trauma made them more selective in choosing a partner. Others, however, felt doubtful or skeptical about marriage due to past experiences. It can be concluded that the fatherless experience has diverse influences on the motivations and desires for marriage among girls. These differences include coping strategies for trauma and varying criteria for choosing a partner. However, a common thread among them is the awareness of the importance of a responsible male figure and the need for emotional security and stability. This study emphasizes that father involvement is crucial in the psychological development and relational dynamics of girls and provides important insights for parents and policymakers to design more effective interventions to support children in similar situations. Furthermore, it highlights the need for greater attention to the fatherless issue within communities, particularly in Situbondo District.