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Journal : Jurnal As-Syar’i: Jurnal Bimbingan

Urgensi Bimbingan Perkawinan Bagi Calon Pengantin Dalam Mewujudkan Keluarga Harmonis Alfarisi, Usman; Zakaria, Endang; Nurhadi, Nurhadi; Karimah, Ummah
As-Syar i: Jurnal Bimbingan & Konseling Keluarga  Vol. 6 No. 2 (2024): As-Syar’i: Jurnal Bimbingan & Konseling Keluarga
Publisher : Institut Agama Islam Nasional Laa Roiba Bogor

Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.47467/as.v6i2.409

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One of the goals of marriage is to create a harmonious family. The process of realizing a harmonious family requires the attitude of the married couple in living a household life. So the need for marriage guidance for prospective brides. In this study, researchers describe that with the urgency of marriage guidance for prospective brides followed by prospective brides, it is hoped that it will make a harmonious family so that it can form a family that can realize the defense of its family and can face and solve problems in the mahligai household. The method in this research uses a qualitative approach to the literature study method. The result of this study is that from the marriage guidance of prospective brides conducted by the two prospective spouses has urgency in realizing the household mahligai that every individual desires, namely a harmonious family, where families can get peace, comfort, compassion, and love and others. Keywords: Marriage Guidance, Bride-to-be, Family, Harmony
Belis Gading dalam Perkawinan Adat Lamaholot Desa Leworaja: Telaah Normatif Empiris dalam Perspektif Hukum Islam Insafiyah Lamablawa, Nurmata; Fakhrurazi, Fakhrurazi; Alfarisi, Usman; Zakaria, Endang; Nurhadi , Nurhadi; Fatmakartika, Rini; Yumna, Laila
As-Syar i: Jurnal Bimbingan & Konseling Keluarga  Vol. 5 No. 3 (2023): As-Syar’i: Jurnal Bimbingan & Konseling Keluarga
Publisher : Institut Agama Islam Nasional Laa Roiba Bogor

Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.47467/as.v5i3.9949

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This study examines the practice of ivory belis in Lamaholot traditional marriage in Leworaja Village, Lembata Regency, East Nusa Tenggara. Belis in the form of elephant ivory is a customary requirement that has social, cultural, and honorary values for Lamaholot women. However, this practice often burdens men economically and raises normative issues in the perspective of Islamic law which emphasizes the simplicity of dowry and the prohibition of burdening prospective husbands. This research uses a qualitative method with data collection techniques through in-depth interviews with traditional leaders, religious leaders, and local communities, as well as analysis of customary law documents and marriage fiqh. The results of the study show that ivory belis is seen as a symbol of self-esteem and kinship bonds, but in Islamic law this tradition cannot be positioned as a legal condition for marriage. Islam only requires a simple dowry which is the full right of the wife. Therefore, the practice of ivory belis requires reinterpretation in order to maintain the cultural values of the Lamaholot community while being in line with the principles of maqaṣid al-shari'ah which emphasizes convenience, justice, and benefits.    
Childfree Perspektif Hukum Islam dan Undang-Undang Hak Asasi Manusia di Indonesia Safira, Nadia; Alfarisi, Usman; Mutiara, Diah; Nurhadi, Nurhadi; Fatmakartika, Rini
As-Syar i: Jurnal Bimbingan & Konseling Keluarga  Vol. 6 No. 3 (2024): As-Syar’i: Jurnal Bimbingan & Konseling Keluarga
Publisher : Institut Agama Islam Nasional Laa Roiba Bogor

Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.47467/as.v6i3.9957

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The phenomenon of childfree, or the conscious decision of couples not to have children, has become a significant discourse in Indonesia. This paper aims to analyze childfree choices from the perspective of Islamic law and the Indonesian Human Rights Act. The research method used is normative juridical with a statutory and literature approach. The findings show that in Islamic law, the decision to be childfree is often considered contradictory to the purpose of marriage, one of which is procreation. However, from the human rights perspective, childfree is part of reproductive rights and individual freedom to determine their life. This analysis emphasizes the dialectic between religious norms and human rights, highlighting the need for dialogue to find common ground.