This study aims to provide input related to the plan to change Law no. 13 of 1998. The number of elderly people is increasing day by day, it is necessary to make revisions in order to realize prosperity. Lanisa with her limitations is a human being who has the same position and degree and must be protected and given welfare. Through the discussion method to provide input on the revised plan, it focuses more on the approach of local wisdom and religious teachings. The value of local wisdom chosen is the Sundanese tradition in the custody of the elderly, the religion chosen is Islam. However, he does not deny other traditions and teachings to study them as an effort to provide input for the welfare of the elderly. In the Sundanese tradition and Islamic teachings there are indeed differences in parental custody, the location of these differences is not substantial. However, to get an understanding of custody of the elderly, a solution must be found first in order to avoid the perception of custody which is always identified with custody of children. The essence of both lies in the race to take care of and respect parents regardless of whether it is a boy or a girl.