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Mimpi Anak yang Tertunda : Ketika Harapan Orang Tua menjadi Tujuan Hidup Anak Dea Alya; Maria Marsella; Natasya Bintang; Hairani Siregar
Khatulistiwa: Jurnal Pendidikan dan Sosial Humaniora Vol. 5 No. 1 (2025): Maret : Jurnal Pendidikan dan Sosial Humaniora
Publisher : AMIK Veteran Purwokerto

Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.55606/khatulistiwa.v5i1.6553

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This study investigates how children’s personal aspirations are often overshadowed or replaced by their parents’ expectations, resulting in life paths that reflect family ambitions rather than individual desires. Focusing on university students, it explores the psychological tension and identity conflict caused by internalizing parental hopes as life goals. Using a qualitative approach through in-depth interviews and thematic analysis, the study captures diverse socio-economic experiences. Three main themes emerge: (1) emotional obligation to fulfill parental dreams, (2) identity confusion stemming from restricted personal agency, and (3) delayed self-actualization. While some students feel motivated by parental trust, others experience anxiety, emotional exhaustion, and suppressed personal aspirations. These findings form the conceptual framework of “borrowed dreams,” illustrating how intergenerational expectations shape identity and motivation. The study emphasizes the importance of improved family communication and culturally sensitive strategies to balance parental influence with youth autonomy. Recognizing young people’s right to define their own futures is vital for healthy identity development and well-being.
Co-Authors Abella Manurung Ade Indah Hutasoit Adinda, Salwa Affandi, Ade Zul Aina Zahra Akbar, Rizky Ameilia Zuliyanti Siregar Ammar , Muhammad Angelina, Yosia Sere Arlina Nurbaity Lubis Befvina Azzira Ziazan Bengkel, Bengkel Berkah Amanda Berlianti Berlianti Berlianti Berlianti Cicilia Kimberly Oldy Saragih Citra Anita Lase Dalimunthe, Ritha F. Dea Alya Devina Dwi Puspita Harefa Dina Khatrin Hasibuan Egidya Oktarin Elviana Safitri Emi Triani Enjelina Panjaitan, Juwita Erga Dwo Winatra Eva Syahfitri Nasution, Eva Syahfitri Fajar Khalifa Rizky Gaby Octavia Ginting, Esekiel Pranata Ginting, Haikal Primsa Ginting, Trifosa Irena Gultom, Dwi Putra Septuagesi Gultom, Lois Enjelina Haratua Aritonang Hia, Johanes Johanes Hia Joice Margaretha Zebua Joy Nicholas Matthew Sigalingging Kaloko, Nurazizah Karo-Karo, Andrew Winpray Keyzia Raysha Putri Kirye Elisye Marsaulina Sihombing Lestari Damayanthi Silalahi M.Rafli Muhajir Maharani, Nadya Puan Malau, Sanreza Pallevi Manurung , Abella Maria Marsella Melanie Paskah Cristin Br Simamora Melda Nadia Simanjuntak Meutia Nauly Miftahul Jannah Mohd Faiz Fansuri bin Mohd Affandy Muhammad Ammar Muhammad Farhan Muhammad Farhan Shidqi Tanjung Muhammad Farid Anbar Muhammad Iffat Rozaan Muthia Faziha Fadhli Nadya Nurhaliza Najwa Dya Annisa Narosu Siregar Natasya Bintang Neysa Aulia Nicholas Endra Sirait Noor Faizah Anak Abu Hassan Nur. R, Siti Hazzah Nurazizah Kaloko Oktarin, Egidya Pujiati Pujiati Purba, Geby Claudia Purba, Rami Santia Ramadani Rangkuti, Muhammad Aqsha Rhut Dear Dwigita Rina Br Manik Ritha F Dalimunthe Ritha F. Dalimunthe Ritonga, Fajar Utama Rizki Saputra Ruth Evelonia Hariani Siburian S, Sintia Sabila, Nazwa Sadiah Muayyadah Sahara, Lisna Saidatulakmal Binti Mohd Santa Claudiya Novita Simanjuntak Sembiring, Gita Shena Pelicia Jovanca Situmorang Sihaloho, Cintya Sihombing, Gresia Amelia Simson Simanjuntak Sinulingga, Eldinda Faridzi Rachmayani Siregar, Indah Permatasari Sovia Fardila SSami Hadisti Br Perangin Angin Suafisa, Haydi suhairani lusri lubis Supsiloani Suri Mutia Siregar, Suri Mutia Syahfitri Nasution Syarifah Syarifah Todo Anugrah Simbolon Utama Ritonga, Fajar Utama, Fajar Wasti Tarigan Yosefa Fras Viktorya Situmorang Yulia Ramadani Zayna Hayani Zebua, Okphilip