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FORGIVENESS ORANGTUA DALAM MENYIKAPI PERISTIWA KEHAMILAN REMAJA DI LUAR NIKAH DI NUSA TENGGARA TIMUR Indriyanti Putri Claudia, Monika; Aipipidely, Diana; Artati, Mardian; Ch, R Pasifikus; Wijaya, Wijaya
PAEDAGOGY : Jurnal Ilmu Pendidikan dan Psikologi Vol. 6 No. 1 (2026)
Publisher : Pusat Pengembangan Pendidikan dan Penelitian Indonesia (P4I)

Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.51878/paedagogy.v6i1.8254

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This study aims to understand the process of parental forgiveness toward teenage daughters who experience out-of-wedlock pregnancy in East Nusa Tenggara (NTT), Indonesia. This region is known for its patriarchal culture that highly values family honor, making teenage pregnancy a heavily stigmatized social issue. While many studies have examined the impact of teenage pregnancy, few have explored how parents, particularly in the local cultural context, process their emotions and forgive their children. Using a qualitative approach with Interpretative Phenomenological Analysis (IPA), this study involved five parents who were interviewed to explore their experiences. The findings reveal five key stages in the forgiveness process: (1) early detection of pregnancy through parental intuition, (2) initial emotional reactions such as anger and disappointment, (3) transition toward unconditional love and protective actions, (4) social and spiritual support that strengthens acceptance, and (5) varying attitudes toward the male counterpart involved. This study fills a gap in the literature regarding the emotional dynamics of parents facing teenage pregnancy in Eastern Indonesia and provides insights for culturally sensitive counseling practices in handling similar cases. ABSTRAK Penelitian ini bertujuan untuk memahami proses pemaafan orangtua terhadap anak remaja yang hamil di luar nikah di Nusa Tenggara Timur (NTT), Indonesia. Daerah ini dikenal dengan budaya patriarkal yang sangat menjunjung tinggi kehormatan keluarga, sehingga kehamilan remaja menjadi masalah sosial yang sangat distigmatisasi. Meskipun banyak penelitian yang meneliti dampak kehamilan remaja, belum banyak yang membahas bagaimana orangtua, khususnya dalam konteks budaya lokal, memproses perasaan mereka dan memberi maaf kepada anak mereka. Dengan pendekatan kualitatif menggunakan metode Analisis Fenomenologi Interpretatif (IPA), penelitian ini melibatkan lima orangtua yang diwawancarai untuk menggali pengalaman mereka. Hasil penelitian menunjukkan lima tahap penting dalam proses pemaafan: (1) deteksi awal kehamilan melalui intuisi orangtua, (2) reaksi emosional awal seperti marah dan kecewa, (3) transisi menuju kasih sayang tanpa syarat dan tindakan perlindungan, (4) dukungan sosial dan spiritual yang memperkuat penerimaan, dan (5) sikap yang bervariasi terhadap pihak laki-laki yang terlibat. Penelitian ini mengisi kekosongan literatur mengenai dinamika emosional orangtua dalam menghadapi kehamilan remaja di Indonesia Timur, serta memberikan wawasan bagi praktik konseling yang lebih sensitif terhadap budaya dalam menangani kasus serupa.  
Co-Authors Abadillah, Muhammad Aji Abdullah Abdullah Ahmadani, Eno Rian Aiman, Muhammad Aisyah, Neng Aji, Ari Purnomo Akbar , Ali Al Farisi, Khoirul Alfathoni, Waldi Alfi Julizun Azwar, Alfi Julizun Ali, Hassan Amirudin, Yusri Amrizal Amrizal Anasruddin, Anasruddin Anggraeni, Ameliya Setia Aprilia, Farahdita Ardiansyah, Refani Artati, Mardian Arya Pratama, Rafi Astuti, Lusia Cipto Begum, Ayesha Boy, Hendry Candra, Heru Ch, R Pasifikus Chai, Napat Chan, Rachel Dahlan, Bayani Daniel Happy Putra Dara, Chenda Dara, Sokha Debiyanti, Debiyanti Deden Deden, Deden Derajat, Shandi Dhani, Dhani Diana Aipipidely Efendi, Syamsul Fariq, Aiman Fatahillah, Tidar Aru Fujita, Miku Godlif Sianipar Gonzales, Samantha Haadiytianingrum, Fierda Hakim, Dan Amran Hossain, Arif Hossam, Ahmed Ibrahim Ibrahim Ilham Ilham Ilhan, Muhamad Indriyanti Putri Claudia, Monika Irfan Riyanto Ismail, Mukhammad Fariz Isyara, Larissa Putri Juleha Juleha, Juleha Kamela, Hurian Khan, Jamil Khoeriyah, Devi Nandira Labib, Hakki Akmal Lamsir, Seno Li, Catherine Mardatila, Farida Mardeli Mardeli Marzudin, Ahmad Rizaldi Meilano, Donny Miftah Faiz Ali Ramdhani Misnaini, Sari Muchtar, Aflatun Muh Irwan, Muh Mulyadi Firdaus, Galih Mulyaraharjani, RA Shanti Dewi Nabuuma, Sylvia Nishida, Daiki Nizam, Zain Nur, Subandi Nurhafanah, Alfiyyah Nurul Huda Omar, Rina Haji Panjaitan, Aris Wahyu Parera, Dishan Pattiruhu, Claudia Monique Pranatha, Aria Putra, Egha Verdiansyah Baihaqy Putra, Sudarmadi Rahimi , Ramin Rahman, Rashid Rahmawati, Rahmawati Ramlan, Pratiwi Rasmi Rasmi, Rasmi Rasyiddin, Ahmad Razak, Faisal Reyes, Maria Clara Ritonga, Abdillah Rofiif Fatin Rusli, Ris'an Saipul Annur Sari, Retno Dwi Sato, Haruka Sayuti, Muhammmad Noor Sembiring, Brema Rivaldo Setiawati, Liana Siti Aisyah SITI MARIAM Sultana, Sharmin Suzuki, Sakura Syafiqah, Syafiqah Tan, Jaden Tanaka, Kaito Umi Trisnaningsih Utami, Devi Aulia Valentino, Dizky Wijaya Wijaya Wijaya, Suraja Darma Yulia Tri Samiha Yuna, Jung Yunita Yunita Zahrotul Uyun Zaki, Amin